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*updated again 1/4/13* ill be single in 1 hour 40 minutes! :) pic in replys page 21 23 and 24

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Dh cheated and I have all the pics and the emails printed between them! When I normally Brimg him the chocolate covered strawberries and wine ill have all the stuff under it.
I'm so scared and so giddy. I have held back for 4 months!



*****UPDATE*****
We are going to "talk". Ill update later. Sorry y'all. So.far its how'd you get these, and trying to blame me for snooping.





2nd update: first my baby got the first kiss of 2013!

Dh (stbxdh) never got mad. He tried to turn it on me a few times. He was defensive. I told him if he really wanted to explain himself then he needs to leave to get his facts in order. I wont deal with lies again. I made it clear that I am not agreeing to work anything out. But I will hear his reason, thoughts and feelings. After 9 years together I feel he should his chance to explain. So we chatted about his leaving and what it meant for our baby. I cried, it was hard seeing the man I depend on struggle to look at me. There is so much more but I need to tend to.the baby. And get some more sleep.
Thank you everyone!
HAPPY NEW YEAR!




**1/4 update**
Okay, so I have learned that women who want ever single detail are insane! He gave me some details of the "affair" and ugh it was horrid! I don't wanna hear what or how they did anything! Period. Not sure he gets that. He has been gone since the morning of the 1st. He's staying at my brothers.he has come over daily to see the baby. Sometimes ill hangout and sometimes ill just let them be. Depends. I talked to some friends about everything. Just to get it out. One suggested I not make a life long choice while I'm still recovering from birth. (Hormones and physical) and I agree. I was already a mess of emotion before this since giving birth. So I'm going to start talking to someone Monday! And try to get my mind together. As of this moment I plan to remain friends and Co parents. But I do not want to remain in a marriage that has hurt so much. My feelings may change but for now that is my choice.

I am holding up okay. I have moments where its so hard. And moments where I feel so free. Then I look my tiny baby and feel so bad for her not having her parents together and happy. Will she resent us? Me? Hus family is behind me 100% as is mine. They all understand. Fir bow despite all of this I am trying to his good side. He is a good daddy. He loves our baby. And I'm happy that we both agree he should be around as much as humanly possible.
The days seem to.blur together and the nights drag on. I'm tired and sleep when possible. Sorry I have not updated until now.
So that's the update for now.
Again thank you for all the support. It really means a lot to me right now.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 31, 2012 at 11:23 PM
Replies (511-520):
beans13
by Silver Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:51 AM
That is what they always did on New Years. Only this year he got an extra surprise.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 96 on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:52 AM
Tradition they have. Its pretty interesting I got to page 10 last night then went back to my best friends party and woke up to over 500 replies I was like yup better get to reading before the DD wakes up

Quoting Mamasgirl524:

Why was she giving him his favorite treat at midnight lol that's pretty random to the story. Lol. Hmmm I'll keep watching this one!



Quoting Anonymous:

Okay so the dh cheated she found out thru a Facebook account and emails she gave him his favorite treat at midnight and some women on here r calling troll even w the evidence. She updated randomly and is talking to him. (Or was)


O she waited so long because she was a high risk pregnancy and didn't want the stress. Her baby is a little over 5 weeks now. She was getting her ducks in a row before confronting him





Quoting Mamasgirl524:

This post seems so interesting!! Too bad it's 48 pages in. Anyone wanna be so kind and give me a little summary?
Mamasgirl524
by Platinum Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:55 AM
Damn so you read it all?

Quoting Anonymous:

Tradition they have. Its pretty interesting I got to page 10 last night then went back to my best friends party and woke up to over 500 replies I was like yup better get to reading before the DD wakes up



Quoting Mamasgirl524:

Why was she giving him his favorite treat at midnight lol that's pretty random to the story. Lol. Hmmm I'll keep watching this one!





Quoting Anonymous:

Okay so the dh cheated she found out thru a Facebook account and emails she gave him his favorite treat at midnight and some women on here r calling troll even w the evidence. She updated randomly and is talking to him. (Or was)



O she waited so long because she was a high risk pregnancy and didn't want the stress. Her baby is a little over 5 weeks now. She was getting her ducks in a row before confronting him







Quoting Mamasgirl524:

This post seems so interesting!! Too bad it's 48 pages in. Anyone wanna be so kind and give me a little summary?
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Okiewifeandmom
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:57 AM
Bump
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kybelle
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:57 AM

That's shitty. I was high risk too and my DH didn't cheat. You deserve better mama gl. 

Quoting Anonymous:

No I have not. I was a high risk pregnancy and couldn't. I just had our first child 5 weeks 3 days ago.


Quoting Anonymous:

Have you been sleeping with him for the past 4 months then? I hope you have been tested.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 97 on Jan. 1, 2013 at 10:05 AM
1 mom liked this
She meant please like her comment so she can read where she left off and it'll come to her notifications...whose the dumb bitch now?

Quoting aeroslove:

Quoting OurFunnyFarm:










God ur dumb. Im not drunk bitch... i dont even have alcohol at my house. U are stupid. Its already been liked!. Im on cell too and i can see it
Anonymous
by Anonymous 97 on Jan. 1, 2013 at 10:09 AM
He has facial hair in the other pic..it's just hard to see with the way his hand is hiding it and the light...it's the same guy. People are so sceptical...I mean even if it wasn't true...oh well still a creative idea for someone who may need it lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Um my understanding was that she took these pictures for his reaction, which means they were all taken w/in minutes of each other.


So one minute he has facial hair & the next he doesn't? 


I am not talking about the pics on the plate.  The man in the chair has facial hair & then doesn't have facial hair.


Thank you but I do know that men shave, don't shave, shave, etc.


Quoting heatherfoutch:

its been 4months my so changes his hair/facial hair all the time


Quoting Anonymous:


I decided to get on my computer & yeah still not seeing facial hair.



There also seems o be a few other differences.  Hope I'm wrong bc I am sick of trolls!



Quoting AerickMomi_MrsD:



Yea i noticed that to



I wonder if anybody else noticed that



Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe it is bc I'm mobile but why does he look like has has facial hair here but not the other pic?




Quoting Anonymous:









 



silverdawn99
by Ruby Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 10:11 AM

hmmm interesting

scoutfamilyof7
by Silver Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 10:12 AM

Just an FYI EVERYONE had access to his name, first and last because she posted it a few pages back. I have it and went to find it but apparently he deleted it. She put it out there for all of us to find, all you have to do is go back through the posts and it will be right there in black and white, that is if people really wanna know his name.

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't think she's talking about you. Just the ones who are wanting you to post his name, its crazy they are even suggesting you look at your history to give them the name. What good is it going to do them? Some take this cafemom way too serious! It's freaky!

Quoting Missmyangel1:

She had posted his FB name of the page that he had secretly made it wasnt a secret or me snooping she gave the info out and wanted everyone to visit it, but he deleted it. I saw it probably one minute before it was deleted. I am not snooping or digging for anything. I am not bashing her or causing trouble simply asking her questions as others have done all night!


Quoting Anonymous:

I think it would be best if the name remained unknown to those who don't know it. It's this woman's and man's personal life. She's letting you in on a small part of her life. No need for you to go digging.





Quoting Anonymous:

Go back in your history. It will show his name on whatever page you clicked.





Quoting Missmyangel1:

Lol I just went back to try to find it again. I had copied and pasted the name but dont have it anymore >.< It was Joseph Coul.... something.. lol thats as far as i can remember 




Quoting Anonymous:

Well YOU could post it since you have the name ;-)







Quoting Missmyangel1:

Lol! Nope! I must have caught it before it was deleted. 





Quoting scoutfamilyof7:

AHHHH ok, I  thought I was going crazy. LOL





Quoting Missmyangel1:

I think she said it was deleted after she put up the name to look for?





Quoting scoutfamilyof7:






Quoting Missmyangel1:

I saw the FB page but there was updates from him from back in May of this year saying that he cheated on you and ruined your relationship? Then one from I believe you telling him that he was dense and talked about him cheating on you while you were giving birth that was from back in September? I am confused.. is your baby like 5 months old and you confronted him aboutit before?










I can't seem to find the FB page.









Anonymous
by Anonymous 93 on Jan. 1, 2013 at 10:16 AM

Well if you believe everything you read on here that is your problem, I don't.

Quoting Anonymous:

He has facial hair in the other pic..it's just hard to see with the way his hand is hiding it and the light...it's the same guy. People are so sceptical...I mean even if it wasn't true...oh well still a creative idea for someone who may need it lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Um my understanding was that she took these pictures for his reaction, which means they were all taken w/in minutes of each other.


So one minute he has facial hair & the next he doesn't? 


I am not talking about the pics on the plate.  The man in the chair has facial hair & then doesn't have facial hair.


Thank you but I do know that men shave, don't shave, shave, etc.


Quoting heatherfoutch:

its been 4months my so changes his hair/facial hair all the time


Quoting Anonymous:


I decided to get on my computer & yeah still not seeing facial hair.



There also seems o be a few other differences.  Hope I'm wrong bc I am sick of trolls!



Quoting AerickMomi_MrsD:



Yea i noticed that to



I wonder if anybody else noticed that



Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe it is bc I'm mobile but why does he look like has has facial hair here but not the other pic?




Quoting Anonymous:









 


 


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