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should I feel bad?? sex-related

Anonymous
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I have been messing with this guy for a few months now. Everything has been great, we have great sex. However, last week when we were having sex he couldn't even get me to orgasm because he was trying to stop from coming... we hadn't had sex in like 2 weeks because I was out of town. So I figured it was because of that, and I would give him a second chance later on that day. Well later he said he was ready to have sex again but I couldn't get him upto and keep him up. I gave him a bj and he stillat was having a hard time getting up. We had sex for a minute or 2 and he stopped being hard again. I was pissed but I left it at that. What a week later we were having sex also and he had no problem getting up, we were all over each other. Well after like 60 seconds of having sex he wasn't hard anymore.

So I'm just at a total loss, is this my fault, should I feel bad or what. I have never, I mean never had this issue before.

I'm upset and frustrated.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:22 AM
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crescentstar2
by expecto patronum on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:24 AM
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There could be so many factors that you shouldn't blame yourself

MichLW69
by PackersXLV4 on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:26 AM
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Don't blame yourself. It could be a variety of reasons and none that have to do w you.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:28 AM
It really sucks though ... I'm like maybe he's tired of me, doesnt find me attractive anymore ....


Quoting MichLW69:

Don't blame yourself. It could be a variety of reasons and none that have to do w you.

MichLW69
by PackersXLV4 on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:30 AM
He could be taking meds that are causing it. He might be stressed about something. Talk to him outside of the bedroom, and just gently bring it up.

Quoting Anonymous:

It really sucks though ... I'm like maybe he's tired of me, doesnt find me attractive anymore ....




Quoting MichLW69:

Don't blame yourself. It could be a variety of reasons and none that have to do w you.

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kissmiss213
by Platinum Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:32 AM

i think its him, not you. but yeah, i would be frustrated too.

baquick
by Ruby Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:33 AM


Quoting kissmiss213:

i think its him, not you. but yeah, i would be frustrated too.

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kaysha
by Ruby Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 1:34 AM
Don't worry about it. It could be something else (meds, stress, etc)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 1, 2013 at 8:25 AM
Get gone magic boner pills, they are the funnest
mindymay84
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 8:28 AM
He should probably go get some medicine... :/ sorry, that sucks
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la-cosa-nostra
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 8:31 AM
How old is he?

I had that problem with my ex but it turned out he was doing cocaine.
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