my parents are taking my daughter ***edi 1/11/2013***
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im 21 had a baby a year ago.
me and my family never got along,actually moved out for three years,all my senior year and two after that) WHEN I WAS 17 AND IN HIGH SCHOOL,I MOVED HOME AT 20 WHEN I GAVE BIRTH!
well i moved home for help with my daghter dad fights with my constantly.i got a job working nights so im home with my daughter during the day,som im always tired.i support us except rent and bills.i help with foodwell we got into it and he told me to leave by the 7th of january,and they were taking my daughter when i do.i cant live without my daughter.she is my entire world.the law the will side with them because im in a shelter,even though their home is nowhere near fit for a kid and they are just going to stick her in daycare.im upset cause im going to have to quit my only job,no car,no friends to stay with
i may lose my only reason for being alive.what do i do,i dont want to lose her...im in florida
(this is what i mean by fighting,but its gotten worse)my father came in from work at 1030 tonight,looked at the trash and yelled at me because i lets her play with crap...in reality it was his dogs that put the shit there,there was teeth marks and my mother had been home knowing full well my daughter was in our room the whole time or in her pack and play in the living room,but wouldnt say anything so me and my father got into it.because he accuses my daughter of doing somthing and then makes up excuses for it when there are teeth mark
***EDIT 1/11/2013***
so last monday was the night i was told to leave,we fought for over and hour and they told me.we will take it week by week,get help de(i from a doctor(iv always thought i was bipolor) and change the "additude".
they didnt say anything bout taking my daughter,but did ask where i was going and told them somewhere where the baby is safe.
im in school(started this week),and been going to work like i need.im looking for ways to get money(egg donation,pell refund and income tax cause i need a car before i can get an apartment or new job)
thank you so much for everyone that has helped me out with this.if anything happens,i will update.thank you
maybe they should take care of the kid until you get your life together
((Hugs))
Quoting Anonymous:
you keep saying "the kid"...and your not supporting yourself if your not paying rent and bills....
Op: they can't take your baby!!! Get to a shelter and let them help with a better job. Good luck!
Quoting mstkn.identity:
I call my son "kid" or "the kid" soooo?
Quoting Anonymous:
you keep saying "the kid"...and your not supporting yourself if your not paying rent and bills....
if i let them take care of her untill my life is set ill never see her again.
according to my schools fasfa im a dependent since i live here.my father wouldnt sign the papers so i could go to college.
at least not till it affected my sisters college pell grant
your parents cannot just take your daughter. call all the women's shelters and find one that will take you and your daughter. the courts will not take your daughter from you, you have a job and if you are living in a shelter, that means you have a place to live. you can do it, trust me.
And I am a Sahm so I don't pay rent or bills...well technically I make the payment but I don't earn the money....but my life is pretty together
Quoting Anonymous:
you keep saying "the kid"...and your not supporting yourself if your not paying rent and bills....
maybe they should take care of the kid until you get your life together
At what age should I tell my son dh is not his bio dad?