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DF is such an a** sometimes. (vent)

Posted by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:32 AM
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I know he's a guy, that's one of the most common traits for ALL guys, but still.

I have the flu, he knows that. I have to stay medicated for the majority of the day just to function enough to care for our kids and cook dinner for him. He's been off for two days now. He's staying up all night on the computer or snooping through my phone which pisses me the fuck off to begin with. Last night he decided he was going to lay in bed and watch tv all fucking night. Doesn't bother me that much. What does bother me is the fact that instead of tending to the baby that he kept waking up by watching tv all night (shes in our room due to medical reasons) he let her lay there and cry until I got up to take care of her. He's already fucking awake, wtf?! He knows I'm sick and he's too fucking lazy to even hold the baby for more than a few minutes to let me pee during the day when he's home. I'm just so sick of him having "days off" and I'm not even allowed to sleep late one day of the damn year.

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deenakate
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:33 AM

Oh my!

Not_A_Native
by Ruby Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:34 AM

So - tell him.

HouseMa
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:34 AM
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It's a common trait for your guy...it's a common trait for SOME guys.

Mine, not so much.  If I am sick my husband grounds me to bed, looks after the house and the kids and makes sure I'm okay and hydrated or fed.  It's the perks of marrying a man and not a boy.

jkampbyll
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:34 AM
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BUMP

JenB1983
by Platinum Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:35 AM
That shit wouldn't fly here.......

Thankfully my s/o seems to be a bit more considerate than yours.
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LilliesValley
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:36 AM
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Wow! I can't imagine being with someone so self centered. Time for a serious talk!

lapcounter
by Race Mom on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:36 AM
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Quoting HouseMa:

It's a common trait for your guy...it's a common trait for SOME guys.

Mine, not so much.  If I am sick my husband grounds me to bed, looks after the house and the kids and makes sure I'm okay and hydrated or fed.  It's the perks of marrying a man and not a boy.

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Fistandantalus
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:37 AM
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Hi hello, that's NOT "normal male behavior" that's closer to "learned helplessness bullshit asshole behavior" and you should consider whether or not you want to hitch your wagon to an ox such as that.

blessed107
by Diamond Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:37 AM
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Tell him! Post like these makes me more appreciative of my hubby. That would not happen here.

Anonymous2u
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 9:38 AM
And ur planning on marrying this guy? My dh gets on my nerves too sometimes but ur df just made my dh look perfect!
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