Quick backstory.. I have 3 children by my ex, he was abusive, I left in 2010, didnt hear from him after that. he moved out of state. I needed some state assistance for a while and was required to file for child support. went to court june 2012 and child support and custody was established. I got full custody and visitation decisions were left up to me. I could decide when, where and if he would see them. still didnt hear from him. in august they began income witholding for child support and suddenly he wanted to see the kids. but he was an ass about it and i said no. he took me back to court to change the custody agreement and the judge ordered that he only gets supervised visitation at a facility with a social work once a month for 12 month. then the court will review and decide if any changes should be made.
the facility costs him $120 to enroll and $80 per visit because he is a non resident of this state. he said, and i quote "i am not paying to see my kids for a measly 1 hour. its not worth it" so he asked in november if he could see them in december and give them a christmas present. i was hesitant, but i agreed. well he didnt show. he said he couldnt afford it. so now hes asking to see them in january and i said no, we are gonna go by the court now. it is what i feel comfortable with. he is so mad, he left me 12 voicemails saying "my days are numbered" and hes gonna hunt me down and take care of me and i should have just shut the fuck up and stayed with him and i wouldnt be having this problem and all kinds of stuff. My husband is pissed that he is talking to me this way.
I feel i did the right thing deciding to stick to the court order, especially due to his history of violence which we can obviously see has not changed. How should i handle this situation from here on out?