Do you know anyone who divorced for the sole reason of "being out of love" with their Spouse?
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Gotta disagree. The emotional "puppy love" stage people experience is temporary.
But you can have true lasting love. I love my husband, and we've been together for 12 years (from dating to present).
Love is also a choice. It's not just some uncontrollable feeling that happens.
I'm enjoying my fairytale.
Quoting Ninjascreenname:
No because most people realize that love isn't all it takes to keep a marriage going.
Love is a fairytale concept!
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Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2:Gotta disagree. The emotional "puppy love" stage people experience is temporary.
But you can have true lasting love. I love my husband, and we've been together for 12 years (from dating to present).
Love is also a choice. It's not just some uncontrollable feeling that happens.
I'm enjoying my fairytale.
Quoting Ninjascreenname:
No because most people realize that love isn't all it takes to keep a marriage going.
Love is a fairytale concept!
That's your choice. I couldn't be in a truly loveless marriage. Nor could I have been intimate with someone I didn't love.
Guess it's not a defining factor for divorce for you then.
Quoting Anonymous:
I never had lust, or love. I married for a live in babysitter really.
Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2:Gotta disagree. The emotional "puppy love" stage people experience is temporary.
But you can have true lasting love. I love my husband, and we've been together for 12 years (from dating to present).
Love is also a choice. It's not just some uncontrollable feeling that happens.
I'm enjoying my fairytale.
Quoting Ninjascreenname:
No because most people realize that love isn't all it takes to keep a marriage going.
Love is a fairytale concept!
______________________________________________________________
I very rarely bother to check a board twice, so debate, get mad, or whatever it is that'll make you feel better, if you don't like what I have to say, because it won't bother me :)
Quoting KlingyMomma:
I used to think that also. Until I met my husband. 4 years together, and 2 of them married and I still love him as much as the first day I met him. If not more. It was love at first sight. I believe now!!
Quoting Ninjascreenname:
No because most people realize that love isn't all it takes to keep a marriage going.
Love is a fairytale concept!
Yes. I do know of a few that for the most part was for that reason. Do I agree, no.
I think that relationships go through seasons, sometimes its great, sometimes its not so great and sometimes its like your stuck in a rut. But getting a divorce, especially if there are children involved should not be the answer at all.
If it is you who is thinking of a divorce, really sit down and find the root of why your want to. Is it because there is another man in your life, maybe a coworker that gives you butterflies when you see him and you don't get those funny feelings for your hubby anymore? That happens, but once you get it in your head that no matter how good looking or sweet another guys is you will not entertain the idea of being with someone else because you are married, that other person doesn't look as good anymore. is it because you guys are so busy with your own day to day life that there is not much time for your love life? Then take a vaction, spend some time with just the two of you.
I think that divorce should be set aside only for those who cheat, abuse or something to that nature.
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