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Do you and your SO still???

Anonymous
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Have oral sex??? We had to stop having oral sex because I get frequent cold sores. The doctor said it can be transmitted to my husbands genital area if I have an outbreak or am about to have one and dont realize it (so obviously hard to know). I have been diagnosed with severe dysplasia which means I have HPV and it can be transmitted to him during oral sex and potentially give him throat cancer. So after discussing the risks with our doctors we decided we had to cut it out. Its been a challenge to say the least but our health is more important to us and if I gave him anything I would never forgive myself. I feel like a bad wife but its not that I dont want to these things with him. I definitely miss them and I know he does. We do have sex often though and we have a good sex life but I always have that thought in the back of my mind that im not giving him everything he wants.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:17 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:21 AM

Its very rare not to do oral for us.

frzmamaof4
by Silver Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:21 AM
We do all the time;-)
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jbirchard
by Gold Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:21 AM
Yes, we do
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bcoll
by Brandi on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:22 AM

We don't have issues like that so we are still active in all aspects.

Sorry, I'm sure it must be tough, for both of you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:22 AM

Yup! All the time.

jbirdsladie27
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:23 AM
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Yes
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:23 AM
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Cant you use condoms and dental dams?
SpiritedWitch
by Froggie on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:23 AM

No ... okay but to be fair, we don't have sex either. Can't remember the last time. 

tnmommy5
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:23 AM
Yes we do.
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JenB1983
by Platinum Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 11:24 AM
I give for him. We both enjoy that.

However, he doesn't give. Apparently had a really horrible experience with a nasty chick, and it's scarred him. LOL. I really don't care, was never something I felt I needed anyhow.
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