He takes care of our 4 month old dd, he does it well. But he cleans nothing, doesn't make dinner and messes up the house. Then I come home at 10pm from work and he leaves to go to his friends or his dads house. He comes home at 3am half the time.... Leaving me to clean the house, put baby to bed and I do ALL the nighttime feedings for the baby (she's bottle fed).
Then I get up at 8am for work, feed baby, fight with him to wake him up and do it all over again.
On my days off he actually wakes up early just so he can leave the house ( his day without the baby pft) and stays gone ALL day until 3am, while I do more cleaning, laundry and cook dinner that he doesn't show up for.
Then he has the nerve to call Me lazy because I didn't leave the house to go hang with him and his dad, which I can't do cuz I'm too busy trying to catch up on the housework that he didn't do while taking care of the baby.
He makes a big deal out of needing time for himself while I haven't had a free moment since the baby was born, I haven't even left the house without the baby other than work.
And no, he's not cheating. His dads is across the street and down a few houses so I know he's there.
How do I make him see shit from my perspective????????