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Too young to be pregnant

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My daughter has just told me she is pregnant at 14 I feel shocked what should I tell her
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:27 PM
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MyGirlsAbbyLiz
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:34 PM

you tell her how you feel and then you let her make the decision to keep it or not. but either way you support her in her decision.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:34 PM
This

Quoting priceless3238:

Tell her she has three options. Keep the baby, abortion, or adoption. Tell her you will support her with what she choses but no matter what it will be hard. Be there for her

Kitschy
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:34 PM
Well at least you're honest. Lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes




Quoting Kitschy:

So was the original title of the post the original name of your troll post?

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sweetieiv
by Ruby Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:34 PM
You dont believe in it but you suggested it to her? I call troll or a bad liar.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion




Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.






Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM
Because it is her choice I would not agree but it's her baby


Quoting BREN_da:

Then why would you suggest her have an abortion?



Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion






Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.








Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!



eykelley
by Gold Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM
Adoption seems like it might be best for her. My advice would be to do research on adoption. Research open and closed adoptions. She is far too young to care for a baby independently and there are thousands of people wanting a baby that can't have one.

I would also have her read up on adoptions stories from all 3 points of view (the bio mom, the adoptive parents, the adopted child). This is a precious gift she could bestow on someone else. And most of the time, the adoptive parents will help with the pregnancy and attend appointments if they are chosen soon enough.

Good luck!
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RetiredUSAFWife
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM

Well if she is telling you the truth, I'd go ahead and support her. Preferably letting the child live.

Mamasgirl524
by Platinum Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM
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No shit. Get it together.

Quoting Aslen:

Man.... I hate inexperienced trolls




Quoting Mamasgirl524:

Uh what? You just said in your other reply you suggested it and explained it to her.





Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion








Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.










Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!



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ARmomOf3
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM

Uh, didn't you just say you suggested abortion to her? If you really didn't believe in it, you wouldn't have suggested it....

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion


Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.




Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!



bowribbonmama
by Ruby Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM
Well, if she doesn't want an abortion you have 2 other options to explore. Help her make a list of pros and cons of each option.
Is the father still around? How are his parents reacting?
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