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Too young to be pregnant

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My daughter has just told me she is pregnant at 14 I feel shocked what should I tell her
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:27 PM
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MissMagical
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:35 PM
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I would support her even though I would be angry and upset etc.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
Because its her choice and her child


Quoting sweetieiv:

You dont believe in it but you suggested it to her? I call troll or a bad liar.




Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion






Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.








Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
Because its her choice and her child


Quoting sweetieiv:

You dont believe in it but you suggested it to her? I call troll or a bad liar.




Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion






Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.








Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!




Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM
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Btw, she can still have a very successful life if she has support. It does not mean the end of her life. I knew a girl who got pregnant at 14, her child is now 11 and she has a very successful career, a husband, a great home, and a new baby. Her parents never let her feel alone and were always there to help her. It can be done successfully, with lots and lots of love and support.

MyGirlsAbbyLiz
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:36 PM


Quoting butterflymama21:

Adoption or keep it but NOT abortion. So many family's want children.Heck if I could your daughter and I can trade. I would love to be pregnant right now :(

so many children are already waiting to be adopted. the families that want children can adopt them. and its not her decision, its her daughters. she will still be the one pregnant,not her mother.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM
My son told me this @ 22. It takes a while to process in your brain!! He was not ready at all, but my grandaughter is the light of my life!!
Hayleesma09
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM

Be there for her anyway possible! Support her decision. Its her body and her life! But let her know if she decides to keep it, tell her how hard it will be. Never abort. There are so many parents out there who cannot have babies who would love to raise it if she does not want to. But being supportive is the main key. What's done is done, nothing you can do about it now but to be there. 

JDmommyJD
by ♥Awesome Sauce♥ on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM
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So the Christian in her won't abort, but it will sneak around and have sex at 14?
Makes sense.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion




Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.






Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!


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nancym3
by Silver Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:37 PM
Apparently not that Christian if your 14 year old is knocked up.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion




Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.






Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!



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BREN_da
by Silver Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:38 PM
Um yeah, ok

Quoting Anonymous:

Because it is her choice I would not agree but it's her baby




Quoting BREN_da:

Then why would you suggest her have an abortion?





Quoting Anonymous:

Yes also we are christen and do not believe in abortion








Quoting Anonymous:

Definitely not this.. what a dumbass. You need to do your best to support her!! No matter what she wants.










Quoting Anonymous:

Abort!



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