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I have tons of money and still unhappy!

Anonymous
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This isn't a brag post or fake.

I have come into some money in my life. Millions. 

I have been seeing my bf for three months now. He has a record, nothing child related, mainly duis and bad checks. He is a drinker. He can start early in the morning and admits he doesn't start to get drunk, that it hits him before he knows it. He has looked into the pills but never gets them. He is big into casinos. It is addicting. I even get hooked when I go. He is retired because he has money too. He is the one who gave me some for helping him. I gave him money. 

Anyways, we have this money, but will it be love. I adore him and I know he cares for me. He has said he is afraid I will leave him once I get my money. 

He shows no affection towards me. It may be all the stres of the money coming, etc. I understand that. He doesn't kiss because he chews and has a complex. I said I didn't care. As long as it wasn't in his mouth. I slipped and said he needed his teeth fixed in front another woman and he got upset. 

We rarely have sex. Four times in three months. He finally said it stinks. Lol. Never heard that one before. Ok I can deal w that. I'll get spray that smells and tastes good. No biggie.

He is big into doing it himself right when he gets awake. He says he is used to this from being in prison. Ok I can deal w this too. I said I am here. Come to me. 

Early on I said I didn't want used for sex like all my other men, and of course he remembers that. Lol. So he says I'm confusing him by being horny all the time.

Sorry so long. Just confused. Will he ever love me? I told him I would stay for six months and give us both time. I want it to happen now,.lol. My nature I guess. I've just never heard of a guy turning down sex. No showers tog. No undressing in front, etc. strange to me.

Thanks for listening.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:06 PM
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msalice_21
by Platinum Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:09 PM
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you need to ditch the dude
Bethbeth
by Silver Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:09 PM

so why are you staying with him?

eesmommy
by Gold Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:09 PM
Wow.
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inmybizz
by Gold Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:11 PM

why don't you leave him??

Emilytrademark
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:11 PM

Just give me the money.. you will feel so much better! No for real, ditch that guy and find someone worth your time.

 BabyFruit Ticker
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:11 PM
You are unhappy because you are with a loser! Move on! The money has nothing to do with it. Although, if you think losing some will make you happy, feel free to send some my way!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:13 PM

I'm hoping he will settle down now since he has his money and we can start a life tog. We both have changes/compromises to make for each other. I know I can't change him. He has to want to change for himself. 

Phew deserves a chance. He has been hurt over his last breakup. He was in love and got hurt.

Tesserae
by Mrs.Mellark on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:13 PM

please stop wasting your life on this guy. good lord... you really want to live your life with an unloving alcoholic? that sounds fun!!!! let him waste all your money on booze! yay

run away now. please.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:13 PM

The bigger question is why are you not taking care of yourself and are allowing yourself to be hurt by someone who is not deserving of your love?  There are some deep-rooted issues that you need to resolve.  The answer is there but only you can figure it out.  You need to learn how to love yourself first and gain some self-respect.  Money has NOTHING to do with it. 

brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:14 PM
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 Money doesn't give you self esteem or a good sense of self confidence. Ditch that guy and explore your options.

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