my exdh let our 17 year old move in with a boy*update*
so my dd(17) wanted to live with her dad cool whatever she wants to see how living with her dad is, my one rule is she has to keep good grades or she's back living with me. so this morning i called my exdh to get dd's grades and he said "oh the card doesnt come here anymore, they go to her apartment" HER WHAT?!?! apperently my exdh let my dd move into an apartment with a boy (who graduated last year) 2 months ago, and they hid it from me!!!! im about to march my ass up to the school and take her back home
my exdh is a moron im gonna punch him in the face when i see him
update: went to the apartment, the guy was there, nasty huge holes in his ears, piercings all over his face (literally). walked in and the place looked decent, not dirty, no dishes in the sink, probably my dd's doing because this guy looks greasy and nasty, i tell him to give me my dd's work address and when she gets off work. he gives the address and the hours and i leave, telling him id be back with dd to get her things, when i get to my dd's work place walked right back to the kennels and found her playing with the dogs.....when she turned her back to me i saw the biggest tattoo on her back this guy took her to get a tattoo, she has even more piercings now also.
she got off at 6 so we go back to her place and i tell her to pack up her stuff, she just crossed her arms and tells me "no, i pay half the bills and half the rent you cant tell me to do shit" i walked straight back to her room and packed all of her things myself, as im walking back to the door she just says "Jack works at a clothing store i can just get more for free" i just put her bag down and say "if you get pregnant before you graduate and have a real job dont come crawling back to me crying" she just laughs at me saying "thanks for thinking im that stupid mom, you can get out of my house now"
im calling my lawyer in the morning to see what i can do, now to drive 2 1/2 hours back home