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I feel so, violated...

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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So, my dh and I have been together a few years now, he has a 12 year old ds and a 14 year old dd from previous relationship, I have an 11 dd and a 9 year old dd from a previous relationship. Well, when we first for together I made it clear I was done having children. He told me he had been snipped the previous year. We have always used condoms just in case I can't use birth control because it does weird things to me.

Well, I'm pregnant. I was looking through our "night stand" for something, I don't remember what though and I saw a thumb tack in there. I started looking at the condoms because, well I was suspicious. He had poked holes in every one.
I confronted him about it and he admitted he lied about being snipped and he's been trying to get me pregnant for 2 years!
I can't fucking believe this! I'm so pissed off!!!!

What do I do?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:15 PM
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loveerosalea
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:16 PM
Damn...
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mama3p
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:17 PM
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Punch him in his face!!! And then sit down and really decide if you wanna be with such a sneaky and dishonest person....

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:18 PM
Oh no, I'm absolutely leaving him. What he did is worse than cheating in my book. I just don't know what to do about the pregnancy...

Quoting mama3p:

Punch him in his face!!! And then sit down and really decide if you wanna be with such a sneaky and dishonest person....

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:18 PM
Right?! I have never been so fucking mad in my life. Took every ounce of me not to kill him.

Quoting loveerosalea:

Damn...
ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:19 PM
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my ex sil tried to do that to my brother.

the key word here is ex 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:20 PM
God! He knows how difficult my last pregnancies were, he knew they nearly killed me.
I'm much older now, this is going to be so much worse...
Mamie_85
by Platinum Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:20 PM
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I would honestly abort and leave. That shit is psychotic. Seriously.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:20 PM
Exactly. I already told him to leave until we can figure out what to do. I'm filing for divorce Monday.

Quoting ColtsFan1912:

my ex sil tried to do that to my brother.

the key word here is ex 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:21 PM
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abort and divorce

samanthastaatss
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:21 PM

That's kind of manipulative and creepy at the same time.

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