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I have no trust in my dh

Anonymous
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due to all his lying.....any advice how to regain the trust?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:36 PM
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velvetkitty
by Gold Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:36 PM
What's he lying about?
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Mom2Boys9501
by Gold Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:38 PM
Talk to him about your feelings. What does he lie about?
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WLNL0507
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:40 PM

Once I lose trust in someone I find it impossible to find it again. But, that is just me. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:42 PM
Quoting WLNL0507:

Once I lose trust in someone I find it impossible to find it again. But, that is just me. 




Me too:(
emptyreliquary
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:44 PM
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Look up some trust exercises. What really needs to happen is you need to see him actively be an honest upright human being. Which may take work depending on how hard he has worked or not worked on developing his character. You aren't going to trust him until some things about him change and you believe in that change. 

marysmithy
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:45 PM

Get rid of him?

JMmomof2
by Bronze Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:46 PM
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I don't.t trust mine either. He accidently sent me a text today while he is supposed to be at work that said "she thinks I am at work, think of a creative way to get together".... then tried to lie his way out. He is not allowed home
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Fatal_Frost
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:49 PM
There's no magical way to regain trust in someone... sometimes it takes a lot of time, and sometimes it never happens
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:49 PM
about watching porn, what he spends money on things like that ive always told him that honesty is most important to me and I want the truth even if it hurts and he looks me in the eye and lies he apologized but how am I supposed to believe him?


Quoting Mom2Boys9501:

Talk to him about your feelings. What does he lie about?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:50 PM
thats how I feel but im trying for dd sake


Quoting WLNL0507:

Once I lose trust in someone I find it impossible to find it again. But, that is just me. 


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