Back story, his distant cousin is getting married the first Saturday of July (6). I am pregnant and due June 20. I have a history of going overdue right up to 42 weeks (all 3 have been overdue). So by the time July 6th comes we'll have a newborn.
I said that I won't be attending and he said he is going weither I like it or not.
Oh and him and the cousin are NOT close. We see him MAYBE 2-3 times a year.
I think your so needs to get his priorities in order. And the cousins wedding is not top priority.
Sounds like you married a child. My husband would never leave me pregnant or with a newborn unless he had to.
That's rude of him. On the other hand, my mom is taking my son and husband to Disneyland shortly after I give birth. I told her it to do it. Give me some time alone with the baby to bond. However if he is leaving you with a newborn, AND the other kids? eff that, he seriously needs to have a good explanation as to why he thinks that's the right thing to do to his wife.



