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Will look better when your smaller

Anonymous
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I went and got my hair cut today. Normally I would just get it layered and thinned out, but today I cut about 2.5 inches off. I figured since am changing so much in my life I needed to change my hair as well. I lost 50lbs in the last 4 months, went down 2 shirt sizes and jeans. I have started to dress differnt because I feel better with how am looking. Well SO is back at base, FL and amd home in GA, I sent him a video to show him . the answer I got back "nice, just think it will look even better when your down to a size 12" Am so up set he knows how hard I am on my self and how I feel about how I look. I know I still have a ways to go with my weight lost and work at it everyday. Now am wondering if I should not have cut my hair yet. :-(
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 5, 2013 at 3:53 PM
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illinoismommy83
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 3:55 PM

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:01 PM
thanks, I guess I was hoping for a different answer

Quoting illinoismommy83:

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(

TairyHesticle
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:06 PM
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What a dick. I'd get attention elsewhere if that's what my husband said to me. Sorry :(
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cueballsmom
by Gold Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:07 PM
My dh would say something like that. But he would mean it as encouragement!
Sort of a "look how far you've come! You are almost there!"
Men aren't women you know! Lol!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:08 PM

Great job, mama! Sounds like he's just being an ass, I'm sorry. I'm sure it looks very pretty. 

ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:09 PM

I'm sorry he is male. I doubt he ment to hurt you. Some just don't think before speaking (I am guilty of it a lot myself). Keep up the awesome work!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:27 PM
Am sure he did not think, guess I was just hoping he would say more then nice.

Quoting ColleenF30:

I'm sorry he is male. I doubt he ment to hurt you. Some just don't think before speaking (I am guilty of it a lot myself). Keep up the awesome work!

Tea4Tas
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:29 PM
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He may have meant to BE nice. As in you look amazing now-and you will look even MORE amazing when you get to your goal weight.

I would send him bakc

I know you meant I look great NOW right? And that I will look out of this world when I get to my goal weight-is that what you MEANT to say honey?

Unless he is a jackass-he will say yes. And perhaps learn from it.....

Redbrandoni
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:36 PM

I would be hurt too. It's a big deal to lose that much weight and it would be nice if he was more encouraging about it. Good for you and keep it up. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:39 PM
Post a before (hair cut pic) and one of the new do. You went anon so no one will know your sn


Quoting Anonymous:

thanks, I guess I was hoping for a different answer



Quoting illinoismommy83:

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(


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