Will look better when your smaller

[Anonymous]

I went and got my hair cut today. Normally I would just get it layered and thinned out, but today I cut about 2.5 inches off. I figured since am changing so much in my life I needed to change my hair as well. I lost 50lbs in the last 4 months, went down 2 shirt sizes and jeans. I have started to dress differnt because I feel better with how am looking. Well SO is back at base, FL and amd home in GA, I sent him a video to show him . the answer I got back "nice, just think it will look even better when your down to a size 12" Am so up set he knows how hard I am on my self and how I feel about how I look. I know I still have a ways to go with my weight lost and work at it everyday. Now am wondering if I should not have cut my hair yet. :-(

[illinoismommy83]

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

thanks, I guess I was hoping for a different answer

Quoting illinoismommy83:

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(

[TairyHesticle]

What a dick. I'd get attention elsewhere if that's what my husband said to me. Sorry :(

[cueballsmom]

My dh would say something like that. But he would mean it as encouragement!
Sort of a "look how far you've come! You are almost there!"
Men aren't women you know! Lol!

[Anonymous]

Great job, mama! Sounds like he's just being an ass, I'm sorry. I'm sure it looks very pretty. 

[ColleenF30]

I'm sorry he is male. I doubt he ment to hurt you. Some just don't think before speaking (I am guilty of it a lot myself). Keep up the awesome work!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Am sure he did not think, guess I was just hoping he would say more then nice.

Quoting ColleenF30:

I'm sorry he is male. I doubt he ment to hurt you. Some just don't think before speaking (I am guilty of it a lot myself). Keep up the awesome work!

[Tea4Tas]

He may have meant to BE nice. As in you look amazing now-and you will look even MORE amazing when you get to your goal weight.

I would send him bakc

I know you meant I look great NOW right? And that I will look out of this world when I get to my goal weight-is that what you MEANT to say honey?

Unless he is a jackass-he will say yes. And perhaps learn from it.....

[Redbrandoni]

I would be hurt too. It's a big deal to lose that much weight and it would be nice if he was more encouraging about it. Good for you and keep it up. 

[Anonymous]

Post a before (hair cut pic) and one of the new do. You went anon so no one will know your sn

Quoting Anonymous:

thanks, I guess I was hoping for a different answer

Quoting illinoismommy83:

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(