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Will look better when your smaller

Anonymous
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I went and got my hair cut today. Normally I would just get it layered and thinned out, but today I cut about 2.5 inches off. I figured since am changing so much in my life I needed to change my hair as well. I lost 50lbs in the last 4 months, went down 2 shirt sizes and jeans. I have started to dress differnt because I feel better with how am looking. Well SO is back at base, FL and amd home in GA, I sent him a video to show him . the answer I got back "nice, just think it will look even better when your down to a size 12" Am so up set he knows how hard I am on my self and how I feel about how I look. I know I still have a ways to go with my weight lost and work at it everyday. Now am wondering if I should not have cut my hair yet. :-(
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 5, 2013 at 3:53 PM
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illinoismommy83
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 3:55 PM

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:01 PM
thanks, I guess I was hoping for a different answer

Quoting illinoismommy83:

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(

TairyHesticle
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:06 PM
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What a dick. I'd get attention elsewhere if that's what my husband said to me. Sorry :(
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cueballsmom
by Gold Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:07 PM
My dh would say something like that. But he would mean it as encouragement!
Sort of a "look how far you've come! You are almost there!"
Men aren't women you know! Lol!
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:08 PM

Great job, mama! Sounds like he's just being an ass, I'm sorry. I'm sure it looks very pretty. 

ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Jan. 5, 2013 at 4:09 PM

I'm sorry he is male. I doubt he ment to hurt you. Some just don't think before speaking (I am guilty of it a lot myself). Keep up the awesome work!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:27 PM
Am sure he did not think, guess I was just hoping he would say more then nice.

Quoting ColleenF30:

I'm sorry he is male. I doubt he ment to hurt you. Some just don't think before speaking (I am guilty of it a lot myself). Keep up the awesome work!

Tea4Tas
by Ruby Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:29 PM
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He may have meant to BE nice. As in you look amazing now-and you will look even MORE amazing when you get to your goal weight.

I would send him bakc

I know you meant I look great NOW right? And that I will look out of this world when I get to my goal weight-is that what you MEANT to say honey?

Unless he is a jackass-he will say yes. And perhaps learn from it.....

Redbrandoni
by Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:36 PM

I would be hurt too. It's a big deal to lose that much weight and it would be nice if he was more encouraging about it. Good for you and keep it up. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 5, 2013 at 6:39 PM
Post a before (hair cut pic) and one of the new do. You went anon so no one will know your sn


Quoting Anonymous:

thanks, I guess I was hoping for a different answer



Quoting illinoismommy83:

Men tend to be stupid and not think out their responses.

Good for you for losing so much weight. Don't let him make you feel bad :(


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