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Is my ex husband a Pedophile? I'm worried. Long please read!

Anonymous
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I was married to my ex for 7 years, and I left him. We never had any kids. We stayed friends by phone, text. I got re-married and had a daughter.

He is seeing someone new now, 6 years we have been divorced and I'm worried about the lady he is seeing child.

Reason being is because I saw him looking in my sleeping teenage cousins top when she was 13, I back out quickly. Made a loud noise and went rushing in. After that I wanted out of the marriage and got out. I also found a porn of a man having backdoor sex with a obvious underage girl on our home computer after I moved out.

I'm worried for her mainly because the child (5 same age as my child) is starting to spend the night at his place, and he talks about needing to use the bathroom in the middle of the night, and the girls mom waking right up. He laughed. We had this convo twice. Why is he waking up so much? He's looking to buy a house and maybe marry this woman.

What do I do, I was abused and I feel like he might do something to this child. As far as I know he never did anything to any child other than what I saw with my cosion.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 7, 2013 at 2:09 AM
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tangerine11
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 2:13 AM

bump

Megan214
by Bronze Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 2:16 AM
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Maybe you should email the other woman with your concerns. I would say something because if you are right.... Yeah. She needs to know. I would rather a woman be angry at me for being wrong and getting into her business than not say anything and have him hurt a child.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 7, 2013 at 2:18 AM
Uh I don't know that's hard because she might think your just a jealous ex
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 7, 2013 at 2:25 AM

I agree, she knows of me, but we have never met and prob won't. I'm married and my husband is in the Military and my ex lives on the other side of the country.

Quoting Anonymous:

Uh I don't know that's hard because she might think your just a jealous ex


xoch86
by Gold Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 2:28 AM

I would talk to her.. Hope she doesn't freak out and see it as a jealousy thing.. 

KeriAZ
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 4:42 AM
Talk to her. I found out after I was divorced my ex molested our dd. Hes in prison.
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jan. 7, 2013 at 4:45 AM

THIS Exactly

What is the worse that can happen......You may be wrong

BUT then again...........  YOU may be right

Quoting Megan214:

Maybe you should email the other woman with your concerns. I would say something because if you are right.... Yeah. She needs to know. I would rather a woman be angry at me for being wrong and getting into her business than not say anything and have him hurt a child.


chunkyhoney78
by Silver Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 4:49 AM

I hope your wrong for the childs sake but if you really feel he may do this please tell the woman she needs to know.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 7, 2013 at 6:58 AM
I'm so worried.. He shows alot of intrest and excitement about the child.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 8, 2013 at 5:28 AM
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