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I have no idea who my dad is, and I have a mother who disowned me 2 years ago. I have very little contact with my family. My mom claimed this one guy was my dad until I was 25 years old, and I found out he was not my dad. He died when I was 9. My mother disowned me when I confronted her and went ahead with a DNA test to see if he was my father or not. Of course, I let his family know the results. Over the course of 2 years, even though they said I was their family no matter what, my relationship with all of them has become distant and awkward. They never call anymore, and I feel like I'm imposing if I call any of them. After all, my mother lied for 25 years, and I was all they had left of him. Now, they have nothing. I just.......feel lonely and abandoned. I know, I'm a mother and I should suck it up. Go ahead and bash.