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Is he "cheating" or am I overreacting.

Lately I have noticed my DH is very hostile towards his laptop. He always makes sure to shut it down when he isnt on it even if he is just getting up to use the washroom and has recently put a passcode on it. Every time I sit near him or walk by him he quickly changes the page or closes his chats. And earlier today when I walked by he was talking to a girl who's chat he closed really quickly. With first glance I could've sworn her reply to whatever he said was "thanks hun you are too ;)" How should I go about this?

by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 4:08 PM
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MomLife16
by Gold Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:05 PM
If he won't show you then something is up and it's time to take drastic measures. Crack that code and pretend you're playing Spy-vs-Spy! :p
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Bentleesmom1223
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:07 PM

It is being taken care of.

Quoting MomLife16:

If he won't show you then something is up and it's time to take drastic measures. Crack that code and pretend you're playing Spy-vs-Spy! :p


krystyneh
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:08 PM
Confront him because that's how my husband acted when he tried cheating and I consider messaging, texting and calling another woman cheating
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arpazia
by Platinum Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:09 PM
Just ask him if he's cheating.
If he is he will just admit to it!
*eyeroll*
Lol sometimes ya just gotta dig!
Good luck
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arpazia
by Platinum Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:09 PM
Just ask him if he's cheating.
If he is he will just admit to it!
*eyeroll*
Lol sometimes ya just gotta dig!
Good luck
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MomLife16
by Gold Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:10 PM
I just caught up. Damn. I'm sry he's doing this.


Quoting Bentleesmom1223:

It is being taken care of.


Quoting MomLife16:

If he won't show you then something is up and it's time to take drastic measures. Crack that code and pretend you're playing Spy-vs-Spy! :p



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Acid
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:11 PM
1 mom liked this

He's very hostile toward his computer?  So, he's acting mad at his computer?

Bentleesmom1223
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:12 PM

Sorry I mean hostile towards me about his computer... but thankyou for the grammar lesson solved all my problems!

Quoting Acid:

He's very hostile toward his computer?  So, he's acting mad at his computer?


LilliesValley
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:14 PM

He's either dating online or looking at porn. confront him, and if he doesn't come clean or tell you what's going on then you are going to have to decide if you want to figure out how to get on the computer and look at the browser history. Tell him you are feeling neglected and don't understand why he's keeping things from you and changing his behavior (like putting pass codes on stuff that didn't used to). Hopefully there's a better explanation, but I'd say it's more likely than not porn or something like that.

mrssummerlin
by Platinum Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 8:14 PM
Talk to him about it.
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