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never really get to enjoy sex with my husband.

Anonymous
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Me and my husband have sex pretty much every day, but I never really get satisfied.
He comes quick and I never get to finish. Lol
So we stop when he is done that it always takes him about 3 mnts.
I always end up frustated cuz I never get to finish. Lol
I always try to play it off by saying its okay we do it some other time if you can't go again.
He is always like I'm sorry babe I can't go again.
Sometimes he does but most of the time he can't so I'm still horny and I will be embarresed if I touch my self.
the way I like to do it he dosent like it.
He always wants me to do it his way.
I don't really know how can I tell him something without hurting he feelings
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:13 PM
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lilfishbigocean
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:16 PM

 So you get a vibrator and tell him to go play with Rosie next time he wants some.

bustybee
by Buzz Lightyear on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:19 PM
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tell him to take care of you first if he cant wait to do the job and isn't willing to do it after. just tell him it makes you not want to have sex

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:19 PM
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Why do you bother having sex with him then?
BewitchedKisses
by Gold Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:19 PM
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Sorry, but if I wasn't satisfied I'd just tell my husband.

You need to get to a spot where you are comfortable enough in your relationship to tell your husband what you want in the bedroom. If you don't tell him, he will probably never know.

auntietotty
by Ruby Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:19 PM
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So you hurt his feelings. He's obviously hurting yours and doesnt care.

Tell him you would like to be thought of first once in awhile.

I dont think I'd want to have sex with someone every day if there was nothing in it for me.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:20 PM

Why dont get he get you off first.  he sounds pretty selfish.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:20 PM
Eventually you will have to say something or it might come out in a even more hurtful way when your overly frustrated. I've gone to the bathroom to finish, then I just started doing it next to him. He loves to watch.
spunky946
by Ruby Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:20 PM

You need to talk to him and tell him what feels good.

ajrjj05
by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:20 PM

make him leave the room and finish yourself :) I do that. 

Celtic_Dragon
by Gold Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 7:21 PM

Psh, fuck that. If he isn't satisfying you cause HE'S a quick shooter and not foreplaying enough, than you should be able to touch yourself however you want! if he doesn't like it, than he shouldn't leave you hanging like that.

I alwas rub my clit while having sex. It helps me get off and makes it less painful for me. Usually, that turns a guy on though, not put them off.

He needs to get you off before you have sex if he's so fast.

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