Would you be offended if your husband or S/O did this?
ok. i just want to vent. lately, i have been feeling really really gross and ugly. and things have really been getting to me lately. last night, me and hubby were having a conversation (i don't care to talk about what lol), but he tells me that sometimes when he is around his male coworkers, he points out the "beauty" of other women. you know i guess what is considered as guy talk. how big and nice their boobs look and their ass and all that crap. well, i felt like because his coworkers and other men he associates with are mostly single, he is not being appropiate around them as a married man. i mean, i don't think pointing out that a woman nice looking or attractive is a bad thing, because there are great looking people everywhere and of course better looking than me. what i don't like is him acting as if he thinks it's okay to gawk at other chicks and have a thing for them and have these fantasies about them. i don't do it and i don't get around my friends pointing out packages and how sexy men are...sure i notice that other men are attractive, but i mean really? i don't fantasize about screwing them and stuff. am i right about this, like would you be offended too or would you not care? could be the hormones ( i am 9 months pregnant), but man.....it don't sit well with me right now.