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Do all white people....warning...this may sound ignorant...ETA...ETA again

Anonymous
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I know not all Caucasians are Americans. I know there's dark skinned French people. My grandfather is from France. He moved to Puerto Rico, got married and had my father. My father was born in PR and identifies with being a Puerto Rican. I was born in PR so I am Puerto Rican. My kids were born in America so they are Americans and they know their Puerto Rican culture.

I'm giving up now. Apparently, I'm stupid and I keep digging my hole deeper and deeper. I'm going to find a ledge now. See you later.


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Ok now that I got you guys all riled up let me clarify a few things. I did put a warning and said that it was going to be ignorant...so stop telling me. I already know. Secondly I do know that not all "white" people have the same views as my "friends", they're actually dh's friends. My problem is not with being called Mexican, it's with being called brown. I am not brown. I do not refer to all "white" people as white because white is a fucking color. Just like "black" people are not black they're African American to me. No one is actually black. I refer to "white" people as Americans. If I'm really that curious I would just ask where they parent's are from and then I'll get my answer. Another thing that I do not like is when people say that they are Jewish. That's nice of you to tell me but I didn't ask about your religion...that's a whole other post.

So if you must, go ahead and continue to bash away.



...think that all spanish/hispanic people are Mexican? Do they all call us brown people? I'm Puerto Rican and I'm really light skinned. When I had blonde hair, people who didn't know me didn't know that I was from PR. My husband is Puerto Rican too but he's really dark compared to me. Our kids are in between. Lol. We have friends that are from the south, we live in NYC. When they came to visit us they kept referring to us as brown people. My dh had no problem with. I on the other did. A big problem. So to go back to my question. Do white people think that all Hispanics come from the same country? I do know not all white people think the same.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:08 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:23 AM
This ignorant white person does actually assume all hispanics are mexican. Even though most tgat I know personally are from central or south america or have been in the country so long as its a moot point
Sept-babies2
by Silver Member on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:23 AM
no i don't.
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B-FigNewton
by Bronze Member on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:24 AM

No. Not all white people are ignorant.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:24 AM
I called them Hispanic. But my dh's family us Mexican so they get called that.
ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:25 AM

My lily white self says no but that is for me personally. Granted where I live most Hispanics I come across are from Mexico, but I know not everyone is Mexican and there is even a difference in the language.

tennisgal
by Gold Member on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:25 AM

yes, i assume all "brown" people are from mexico or south america (PR would never be my first guess), but I've never called anyone a brown person before. 

momsince04
by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:25 AM
Actually Hispanic is the wrong term for ricans. Ricans, and people of south america are considered Latinos. Hispanic is for spanish speaking people of the americas whose first language was Spanish and colonized by spain. Hispanic is a term that I believe Nixon adopted, in 1980 to pretty much sum us all up.
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tlcory
by Gold Member on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:27 AM

Lmao...

jenn31
by Member on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:27 AM

i think you have some ignorant people in all cultures. Some Latin people think they are superior to Mexicans. My ex Colombian bf lied to his mom for months and told her I was Puerto Rican, cause he was ashamed I was Mexican. I did land up leaving him over this. But his defense was; my family would never accept me marring a Mexican.

Luna091306
by Crystal on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:28 AM

 No. lol In my area most "hispanic" people are Mexican however. That or Guatemalan.

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