Ladies!!! Can we change the world one jacka** at a time? Yes...
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I have a friend on Facebook. Lets call him zack. Hes extremely hot and very intelligent so i love when he calls me beautiful and asks to take me out. but... He is such a smart ass. He has the most controversial posts. He doesn't care what anyone thinks. I'm the annoying bitch that constantly comments arguing back. Usually I get nowhere but his friends always agree with me.
Well yesterday he crossed the line.
He posted a status like "wow they have slutwalks every year? You mean they all congregate once a year and I never knew? I'll go wear a sign saying 'you all deserved it'".
Me: wtf?
Him: joke> Stephanie's head
Me: sorry I don't think joking about rape is funny or saying they deserved it.
Him: well I do like to troll.
Me: troll about something else.
Him: no when I start choosing about what I will and will not talk about, it's a slippery slope from there.
His friend: freedom of speech
Me: okay Zack this is your FB. You're something else. But stay tuned...
So I uploaded the video of Michael nodianos joking about raping that girl. And I tagged him in it. Someone commented on the video and I tagged his name again saying he likes to joke about it too. He comments saying "I can joke about whatever I want. Rape too."
So I sent him a lengthy message....
Basically I went into compete detail I my rape that happened two weeks ago. I went into extreme detail. Then asked "was that funny? Was that funny to read? Did I deserve that?"
(It was way longer than that)
He messaged back saying I made my point and he was sorry. I told him sorry doesn't really mean much, but he could start by watching what he's joking about because I think 1/5 of his friends have been sexually abused. He deleted his post and made a public apology.
This guy, no one can get through to him. He's that jackass that no one stands up to. But I did. I told my story.
There's one less jackass blaming the victims. :)
Well yesterday he crossed the line.
He posted a status like "wow they have slutwalks every year? You mean they all congregate once a year and I never knew? I'll go wear a sign saying 'you all deserved it'".
Me: wtf?
Him: joke> Stephanie's head
Me: sorry I don't think joking about rape is funny or saying they deserved it.
Him: well I do like to troll.
Me: troll about something else.
Him: no when I start choosing about what I will and will not talk about, it's a slippery slope from there.
His friend: freedom of speech
Me: okay Zack this is your FB. You're something else. But stay tuned...
So I uploaded the video of Michael nodianos joking about raping that girl. And I tagged him in it. Someone commented on the video and I tagged his name again saying he likes to joke about it too. He comments saying "I can joke about whatever I want. Rape too."
So I sent him a lengthy message....
Basically I went into compete detail I my rape that happened two weeks ago. I went into extreme detail. Then asked "was that funny? Was that funny to read? Did I deserve that?"
(It was way longer than that)
He messaged back saying I made my point and he was sorry. I told him sorry doesn't really mean much, but he could start by watching what he's joking about because I think 1/5 of his friends have been sexually abused. He deleted his post and made a public apology.
This guy, no one can get through to him. He's that jackass that no one stands up to. But I did. I told my story.
There's one less jackass blaming the victims. :)
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 8, 2013 at 2:44 PM
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on Jan. 8, 2013 at 3:19 PM
That is so awesome you got through to him. Also I'm very sorry about your rape.
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on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:54 AM
Good for you!! Im sorry that happened though :c
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