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help please. **update**

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? Sorry for the long post but please read .Ok I allready know I should see a doc i have my appointment on friday, but it someone might know whats going on please tell me. I had my baby a month ago, at 4 weeks I had allready stoped bleeding and had no more menstural cramps and hadno more vagional swelling. So at 4 weeks I tried having sex but it hurt my vagina walls too much so I didnt follow through. I also read that if you feel fine to excersize befor your 6 week check up thats fine and that their is no proven facts about needing to wate 6 weeks so for 3 days I did 50 sit ups and was fine, the next day I excersized 20 mins doing squats and abbs, then the next day I did 20 mins also but of mostly arms. After that my baby started crying and so I picked her up and I got some sharp pains on my left side wher my overies/uterus is so I put her down. When I laid down or sat I was fine but when I walked up the stairs or moved a certain way i had the little sharp pains again. The next day I had the same thing and I was sore in my hips and my groins but it all went away in like 4ddays. and i also noticed a small amount of red blood in my clear discharge when I wipe but not enough to spot my undies and ive had light vagional xwellin again and ive had both since. the Like 3 days ago when I was breastfeeding the pressure of the baby on my belly gave me sharp pains so I changed position. The next day I started to have menstural like cramps sometimes when I breatfed and I felt sore like inflamation in my uterus, like a warm kinda irritated soreness. I have that again today its more than yesterday but I did do a lot more activity then yesterday. But shouldnt it be getting better not worse? Maby its like this cuz like 2 or 3 days ago I went out for walks for two days in a row but I havent done that for three days. Wouldnt an infection delope faster? We washed our hands and used a condom and lubercant but he didnt even go in all the way and we immidietly to it out when inserted and I felt pain.

Thanx for reading.

Thanks for all your replies guys and also thanx for all those who backed me up to that hatefull woman. Ill let you all know what my doc says. You all made me feel a lot better!
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:53 AM
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opinionatedmom
by Platinum Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:56 AM

 sounds like your stitches aren't healing right or you are over exerting your stitches. but bump for other opinions

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:58 AM
Quoting opinionatedmom:

 sounds like your stitches aren't healing right or you are over exerting your stitches. but bump for other opinions


but it not where my stitches are, they are healed. I only had 3.
tastelikeyum
by Gold Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:59 AM

I have no clue but here is a bump. I hope you feel better soon!!

opinionatedmom
by Platinum Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 3:00 AM

 that is why I bumped something isn't right.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting opinionatedmom:

 sounds like your stitches aren't healing right or you are over exerting your stitches. but bump for other opinions


but it not where my stitches are, they are healed. I only had 3.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 9, 2013 at 3:01 AM

sounds like you should've just waited the 6weeks, like they say to. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 9, 2013 at 3:01 AM

your spelling is atrocious!

Butterfly1108
by Silver Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 3:03 AM

My guess would be your body is still healing from inside and is only trying to get back to normal...I pray the doctor will give you good news.

Keep us posted ;) Hope you start to feel your ole self again.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 9, 2013 at 3:04 AM
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your spelling is atrocious!


who fucking cares im with a new born and you must have no life to waste time writing that and being rude.
Mommyof2n0308
by Marissa on Jan. 9, 2013 at 3:04 AM
I get that to and its been 4 years.but even coughing hurts so bad. They told me it was scar tissue from my cesarean. It sounds like you had a vaginal though so I don't know
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mousesmommy5610
by Bronze Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 3:07 AM

could just be that ur uteru is still tender even a yr or after m y first my uuerus did funny things likeache here and there and it was nothing really just a bit of inflamation from the activity take it slow when it comes toworking out the abdomen, plus heres a tip to help strgneth ur vagina and the walls of it along with the uteurs when u pee squeeze to stop it and if u can stop it all the way great if not u can squeez that muscle down there all day if u wanted our when ur doing dishes or whatever its called keegles and il tell u what i did them from the time i found out i was pregnant with my first cear threw the prgnancyand after and even now and im prenant again. it works it also hped my pain alot. but im sure its normal infact it sounds pretty normal but ask just i case but im sure ur ok....

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