I am done with DHs family. I don't care. I can't take them.
But they make me hate them.
I could write a million pages on all the selfish things they do that show they really don't care about anything but they're own feelings. They want you there on family days for their own feelings or to look good in front of others ... But not because they actually love you and care about you - if that makes sense.
So my son takes a nap every single day at 11 am since he was born. It lasts a couple to a few hours. It just depends. But he's asleep by 11 am. It doesn't change. Ever. We have our routine I stick to and that's that. It's his own little clock that determined this. He expects to be asleep cozy in bed.
So I always have told the inlaws that No! I cannot come to lunch or anywhere during that time because if my son isn't in his bed stretched out all hell breaks loose and his schedule gets all screwed and he doesn't handle it well.
Well they text me and are up in fits over Sunday for SIL bday. She is so overbearing and pushy in the first place. I let her know anything works for that day as long as its before or after DS nap.
Well she just texts me everyone is coming for her party between 11 am and 11:30 am.
Ok. F u. Lol.
I feel like cussing her out. She drives me crazy.
Yes. I'm venting
No this isn't a huge problem or the end of the world.
Maybe I'm in my 4 th month of pregnancy and have pregnancy rage. Lol. I just said ill check with her brother.
I'm not even going to say that's his nap again. F them