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would you be upset?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
OK my boyfriend of 4 months is legally still married, he hasn't filed for divorce yet because money is tight, but plans to soon he is waiting on some settlement money. Anyways the soon to be ex has tried to commit suicide and in the hospital in serious condition
He has been up there the last two nights. He told me I have nothing to worry about he is in love with me and he doesn't want her. He is just concerned and he cares for her . It is starting to upset me a little. Am I being selfish? After she gets out of the hospital I plan on having a talk with him about making the divorce a priority, I feel like she will come between our relationship. I an acting supportive and trying to put my selfishness aside but it is so hard. How would u handle this?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:08 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:52 PM
Rather than getting pissed at people's comments, maybe you should have been more specific and stated the details in your original post. Seriously, what did you expect when you posted that you've been dating a married man? lol Just a thought!


Quoting Anonymous:

Omg u don't know all the details so stfu

She was the cheater that's why they are not together. When I met him they had been apart for 6 months they are not getting back together




Quoting ATG499:

"I feel like she will come between our relationship."





Said the woman who is in a relationship with a MARRIED MAN.


o.O....
by Cara on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:53 PM
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If you have to have sit downs with your boyfriend to stress the importance of him getting a divorce, perhaps this is not the right time to be persuing a relationship with him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:55 PM
I'm not a dam homewrwrecker, she cheated on him they split up. He tried to work it out with her she didn't want to
They've been seperated 6 months and I didn't meet him until after they were seperated so stfu u don't know the whole story



Quoting Anonymous:

Omg! IKR! How freaking ironic! The OTHER woman getting butthurt over being a home wrecker! Lmfao!



Quoting ATG499:

"I feel like she will come between our relationship."





Said the woman who is in a relationship with a MARRIED MAN.

CarolinaGirl88
by Silver Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:56 PM
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I would handle it by not being in a relationship with someone who's still married. Regardless of where he might be in the divorce process, he is not in fact divorced yet and I feel like that's just asking for a complicated relationship. Not trying to be rude or anything like that, just saying what I would do.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:57 PM
I would be more concerned if someone I was with DIDN'T care that someone they once loved tried to kill themselves.
sampson200
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:04 PM
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I would let him know that I love him, but I have respect for myself and my children and if he really loves ME, he will work out the issues with his wife (separated or not) regarding her suicide attempt, divorce her, then he is free to call on me.

I would not put myself in such a precarious situation.

He is still married; he is still legally bound to someone else and you have been with him for 4 months already? And you met when he had only been separated from her for 8 weeks? Erg.

Sounds like this boy-man is getting his cake and eating the hell out of it, too.


scarletmeshell
by Platinum Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:05 PM

You are the other woman, why do you think you have the right to be upset?

sampson200
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:06 PM

How much will it cost to file for divorce?

The filing fee for a divorce petition or complaint is approximately $100-$350 in most counties. It generally costs an additional $100-$200 to file a response to the petition. These fees are collected by the government and are in addition to any service or legal fees. The filing fees are in addition to the amount charged by LegalZoom.

*****

He cannot afford to set aside up to $350 to file?

Really?

Ummm........

Anonymous
by Anonymous 15 on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:09 PM
Don't date married men.
rebeccadac
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:10 PM

I think you are.  He is MARRIED! You probably should not be with him in the first place right now... let his relationship be FINISHED before getting involved... however you are and she IS his wife so yeah he cares about her wellbeing .. would be concerned if he didnt!!!

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