I don't agree with the parent recieveing CS sitting on their ass at their parents house not trying to get a job or paying any bills to recieve a shit ton of money. I mean getting CS and welfare not trying to work because she can use CS for vactations or go to the salon and shit. I think it should just be used for the kids period. I just don't think its fair for a parent to work their ass off to provide while the other parent does nothing.
Update- This is why I feel this way and what my situation is BM for the past year lost yet another job(was fired again)then had another baby with a parolee who is back in jail for another 15-20years gets a ton of CS from DH collects unemployment sits on her ass all day but puts her kids in daycare for 8+ hours for no reason and collects FS. I mean come on she lives at home with her parents does not pay one bill DH buys everything SD needs on top of CS. She brings in more money a month with all this than DH and I both do. We buy her everything because she refuses to she always sends her unbathed and in really nasty clothes. We have tried getting custody but everytime she ends up pulling a miracle to keep her. That is why I feel this way