The thing is she has drs notes and notes from me for every absence, early pickup, or tardy. I dont take her to the dr everytime shes not feeling well, only if needed. And I explained to the teacher about a medical problem shes having and having to have multiple drs appt. And shes going to have surgery in the next month or 2 for it and I don't know how long she will miss from that. How is this becoming my fault?