One Example: when my son was born every time I would go to my mil he would cry a lot ( but he wouldn't cry at home), so my mil sis told her that it was the formula, so they went and bought some other formula and gave it to me. And wouldn't stop talking about how I needed to give it to him, so I did after 2 days of having them 2 after me about it. So what happens my son cries all night long, I go back to his formula and he's fine.
So it's little things like this, they'll diagnose my son and buy me all the stuff I need to give him, instead of just giving me a suggestion!
I typed really fast hope y'all can understand me, just wanted to vent :/