Ok my daughter is 13 going through normal teen drama.My question is should I get involved and try to solve the problems ? Can I ask too many questions that might push her away and make her not want to talk to me ? The rules I have set up at our home is this (we also have an 11 yr old daughter) I monitor both phones,texts mssgs,facebook etc to make sure nothing inappropriate is going on,they have set times to be on the phones/computers. Am I over protective ? She knows she can talk to me about whatever whenever...any advice.