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i am very hurt. please offer advice.

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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(i also asked this in the answer section but more advice is great)

facts:

every year my in-laws, who live across the country, come to our state for a 1 week vacation. They rent a cabin and pay for most everything. we, my husband, me, and 3 kids, go stay with them.

only 1 child is biologically my husband's - the youngest

this year my in-laws want to go somewhere else, not here, and we would have to fly to get there

my husband called and asked how I would feel about not going on vacation this year. i thought he meant all of us. NO, he meant that only himself & our youngest would go.

Me and my kids (his stepkids) are not invited due to cost. my husband has NO problem with this.

Frankly I am shocked and heartbroken that my husband would even consider going away for a week without me and 2 of our kids. i am deeply hurt and don't really know how to act around him now.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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Logan_Bellasmom
by Ruby Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:16 PM
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My husband wouldn't be stupid enough to ask that.
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ecerka
by Platinum Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:16 PM
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I'd have a big, Big problem with this. You need to tell him how this makes you feel.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:17 PM
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This.
You are a family and a group package. It needs to be an all or nothing deal


Quoting Logan_Bellasmom:

My husband wouldn't be stupid enough to ask that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:18 PM

oh, he knows how i feel. he said that he wants to see his mom. i am lost. and hurt. very very hurt.

Quoting ecerka:

I'd have a big, Big problem with this. You need to tell him how this makes you feel.


RunningMommaof2
by Kelly on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:19 PM

Awww I think you should remind him that you are all a family. Either you all should go or no one goes. 

khloemum
by Bronze Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:20 PM

 I wouldnt appreciate it AT ALL!!

Stephd710
by Ruby Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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"You do what you think its right, but I wont be here when you get back."  Yep. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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You're husband is an oblivious insensitive bafoon.... If he thinks its ok then you guys need to talk how he isnt a single parent in a one child household
rebeccab1966
by Gold Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:20 PM

Wow, I'd be devastated.  And furious.

christyg
by Bronze Member on Jan. 10, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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Tell him to go ALONE! If you are not all included, then he can go all by himself. When he gets back, YOU get the second ticket that he was willing to buy and get to go somewhere alone. Seems like a fair trade to me!!

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