(i also asked this in the answer section but more advice is great)
every year my in-laws, who live across the country, come to our state for a 1 week vacation. They rent a cabin and pay for most everything. we, my husband, me, and 3 kids, go stay with them.
only 1 child is biologically my husband's - the youngest
this year my in-laws want to go somewhere else, not here, and we would have to fly to get there
my husband called and asked how I would feel about not going on vacation this year. i thought he meant all of us. NO, he meant that only himself & our youngest would go.
Me and my kids (his stepkids) are not invited due to cost. my husband has NO problem with this.
Frankly I am shocked and heartbroken that my husband would even consider going away for a week without me and 2 of our kids. i am deeply hurt and don't really know how to act around him now.