Ds who is 3 has an issue with lying, about stupid stuff at that. Usually we sit down and eat together but dh isn't feeling well and I have tons I'm in the middle of doing so I wasn't ready to eat either. Ds came in and told me he ate all of his food and wanted a snack, I told him to hold on. When I got in the kitchen he are maybe 2/3 his food, so I told him no snack because not only did he lie he didn't eat. He then set down and finished his food and asked for more, he ate another good helping then asked for snacks again. I once again told him no because he lied to me. I set on his bed and cried, not a tantrum more like heartbroken, I asked him why he was crying, he said because you're a mean mom.
I got them those snacks this morning at the gas station, he didn't eat lunch so he didn't get it then. Tonight sissy ate her dinner so she got hers. I don't think I'm being unfair.