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I haven't washed my hair in a few months. *ETA* PHOTO and no poo technique

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Okay, I am lazy as fuck so I am just going to C/P a few paragraphs I posted to a local "Beauty" FB group. About 2 months after I posted this, I weaned myself off the baking soda and vinegar completely and now I just rinse my hair really well when I shower. 


NO POO! 

Let me preface this by saying I am about the least "crunchy" person you'll meet. I love plastic and convenience and don't believe "the man" is out to destroy our hair, or that shampoo is full of chemicals that are poisoning my children, etc, etc. A lot of the things I have to say with regards to no poo sound "alternative" or "hippie" and I just want to assure you all that I am no patchouli-waving barefooted guitar strummer trying to change your life. I just want to share what fixed my hair. Before/after photos to come. 

So here is the basic rundown on No-Poo. The idea is that our hair has a natural balance of oils to keep it healthy and protected. When we use shampoos that contain foaming agents (look for "sulfate" on the label) that give consumers that "clean" feeling, all of the natural oils are stripped from our hair. In order to be able to style our hair after being stripped, we use conditioners, cremes, serums, and other products in an attempt to recreate the natural oils. Meanwhile, our scalp senses the stripping of the oil, so it goes into overtime creating more in a failed attempt to compensate. THIS is why many women's hair is instantly oily if they go a day or more (or even LESS) without shampooing. Sometimes our scalps give up; which is why hair can get SO dry without the addition of commercial hair products. 

No Poo is a process by which regular shampoos and conditioners are replaced by natural alternatives; some advocate going totally "natural" and just "washing" with water (basically giving yourself a scalp massage) but I have been happy with a simple baking soda "wash" and a vinegar "conditioning". Most people use apple cider vinegar; I use white because it's what I had on hand when I started and I just haven't made the switch. 

A word to the wise: No Poo has a 1-3 week "break in" period when your hair will be super oily. This was less intense for me because I'd already switched to Wen; I only had about 3 days of oily hair. But if you are going to do No Poo and want the full benefits, you just have to suffer through a week or so of wearing hats and scarves on your head! The reason for the "break in" period is because your poor scalp is so used to extruding ridiculous amounts of oil to compensate for the sulfates. The best thing you can do for yourself and your hair is to commit to ONE MONTH of No Poo NO MATTER WHAT. If you stick with it, you will be SO happy with the results!

The routine:
Mix 1 tablespoon baking soda with 1 cup water. The water should be cloudy; NOT gritty. Slowly pour this mixture on your scalp, rubbing it in and lifting hair to get it all over the scalp. Massage the hair around your scalp until it "feels" clean (you'll know it when you feel it). Rinse, rinse, rinse, rinse. Rinse till you think it's all gone, then rinse one more time. 

Mix tablespoon vinegar with 1 cup water. You can also add a drop or two of lemon juice or essential oil for scent, if you want. Repeat the same process you did with the baking soda, concentrating mostly on the ends of hair. 

I use red plastic Solo cups and estimate my amounts. Theoretically you should be able to gradually reduce the amounts of baking soda and vinegar, but like I say, I haven't done so and am still happy. Your hair will smell strongly of vinegar while it's wet, but as soon as it dries the smell disappears COMPLETELY. I haven't added any scents to my vinegar rinse but I have read that when the vinegar scent fades the essential oil scent will remain. 



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by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 12:33 AM
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gabeybaby07
by Silver Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:21 PM

I go 1-3 weeks inbetween washing my hair

laineysmum
by Silver Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:23 PM

It must be the RuPaul avi.. or my no-nonsense sassy style?! I hope?! Haha.. 

I had dandruff before I went no-poo. I tried all kinds of anti-dandruff shampoos and nothing worked except Wen, then this. 

Quoting Brandyns87:

Your hair looks nice, but I would get dandruff if I didn't use shampoo. For some reason I've always thought you were black. This is the first time I've seen a picture of you.


nelliesmommy
by NoTtOdaY:) on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:25 PM

I couldn't do it. It may not be good but I have to wash it each day or every other day. Your hair looks good though.

laineysmum
by Silver Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:27 PM

I'm not really fighting the natural process - I'm working with it. I still "wash" - my title is obviously misleading in order to gain clicks (muuhahahahaha). I just don't use harsh detergents. I wash with water. Because it works. If I never rinsed or combed my hair, yes, I would be fucking disgusting and the body wouldn't have a "natural process" to compensate for that! It's just what works for me. 

I may go back to vinegar rinses and add some essential oils or maybe a little vanilla extract just because I do miss my hair smelling like a scent instead of just smelling like clean hair. But whatever.  :)

Quoting Anonymous:

I've seen a few of these no poo posts and i dont get it. Why is it a problem to fight your body's natural process? We all do it, all the time, or we'd all be stinky and gross. The body doesnt have a perfect system for a lot of things or else we wouldn't need to wipe our asses or wear deoderant. Whats wrong with washing your hair with some damn soap like the rest of your body?


momma-flynn
by Gold Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:33 PM
my transition was closer to 9 weeks. it was hard but worth it.
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Mrs.Torres2566
by Mrs.T on Jan. 11, 2013 at 6:23 PM
Quoting Grumpylilpixy:



Lol, it says starburst...the candy...lol! You made me double check my own spelling. I was like did I write star dust? Lol!
Grumpylilpixy
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 6:27 PM

I thought it said star dust.. LOL I must have read it to fast. LOL My bad.

Quoting Mrs.Torres2566:

Quoting Grumpylilpixy:



Lol, it says starburst...the candy...lol! You made me double check my own spelling. I was like did I write star dust? Lol!


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Mrs.Torres2566
by Mrs.T on Jan. 11, 2013 at 6:34 PM
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Quoting Grumpylilpixy:



Lol, it's ok. It made me laugh!
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by Platinum Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 6:37 PM
Ds does the vinegar cleans for his locs. Its not for me.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 8:10 PM
What happens when you get caught in the rain, does your hair go back to smelling like vinegar?
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