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I am seriously stressing about telling my husband.....

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That I'm pregnant again....
We have 2 boys already and neither were planned... hes currently unemployed, we're relocating our little family a 6 hour plane ride away in less than 2 months, and currently we live at home with my parents...oh and our youngest is only 4 months. I'm bfing and we use condoms... but some how here we are.
I have an apt to confirm tomorrow and I plan on breaking the news after...

Don't get me wrong I know each of my lo's are a blessing and we couldn't imagine our lives without them. The timing is just horrible, not to mention dh has been pretty clear he was done with 2.... ugh
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:06 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:12 AM
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It almost seems, there's never a good time. Everything happens for a reason, take your little bundle of blessings and remember that it won't always be this way. You'll be back on your feet and loving the fact you have three precious babies. 

mattiehatter
by Mary on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:13 AM
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Condoms can still be faulty. It happens.

Quoting ElitestJen:


Quoting mattiehatter:

Double bagging is actually not a good idea at all.

Quoting ElitestJen:

He obviously wasn't clear enough to get snipped or to double bag.


Well....apparently a single doesn't work for this particular couple.


toybar02
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:14 AM
he should have pulled out on time then it wouldnt have happened lol, nah really he cant get mad at you, it takes two, just confirm it , let him know, and move on from there, i wish you all the best
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:14 AM
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So your suggestion was to offer useless advice?

Or do you just feel stupid for someone pointing out your error when you were trying to be an Internet badass?

Quoting ElitestJen:



Quoting Anonymous:

I know what it means.



I guess I should not be surprised there are women on here who do not know that that causes friction tears in both conforms rendering them useless.



Quoting ElitestJen:




Quoting Anonymous:

"Double bag" ?





Seriously?





Quoting ElitestJen:

He obviously wasn't clear enough to get snipped or to double bag.

2 condoms. 

I know exactly what causes what.  The OP is "somehow" in this position.  Perhaps you should redirect your sex ed lecture.

ElitestJen
by Ruby Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:15 AM


Quoting mattiehatter:

Condoms can still be faulty. It happens.

Right.  The condom didn't work.  The spermicide failed.  It happened at just the right time.  It's all a cosmic fate, really.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:15 AM

Two condoms = more friction = higher possibility of tearing = BABIES!

Quoting ElitestJen:


Quoting mattiehatter:

Double bagging is actually not a good idea at all.

Quoting ElitestJen:

He obviously wasn't clear enough to get snipped or to double bag.


Well....apparently a single doesn't work for this particular couple.


ElitestJen
by Ruby Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:17 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

So your suggestion was to offer useless advice?

Or do you just feel stupid for someone pointing out your error when you were trying to be an Internet badass?

I didn't make an error.

And this woman doesn't need advice.  She needs a job.

LOL @ internet badass.  Yeah, takes a real badass to know sex = babies. 

No wonder the birth control fail rate is so high.  You all are just too sweet to understand biology!

ElitestJen
by Ruby Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:18 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

Two condoms = more friction = higher possibility of tearing = BABIES!

BF + 1 condom = baby for this particular woman. 

Tell me more!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:19 AM

You + the internet = confidence!

Quoting ElitestJen:


Quoting Anonymous:

Two condoms = more friction = higher possibility of tearing = BABIES!

BF + 1 condom = baby for this particular woman. 

Tell me more!


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:20 AM
Some of us are just secure enough in our lives and happiness that we do not have to kick others when they are down to feel better about ourselves.

Quoting ElitestJen:



Quoting Anonymous:

So your suggestion was to offer useless advice?



Or do you just feel stupid for someone pointing out your error when you were trying to be an Internet badass?


I didn't make an error.

And this woman doesn't need advice.  She needs a job.

LOL @ internet badass.  Yeah, takes a real badass to know sex = babies. 

No wonder the birth control fail rate is so high.  You all are just too sweet to understand biology!

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