I just made sure all my husband papers were in order for court tomorrow and i started counting all the days in the last 19months that we have had his daughter and its about 100 days in 19months and its all because she is to busy drinking and partying to take care of her own kid. I honestly dont mind and Id rather have my SD in a stable safe environment like our home. But come on thats only the days that she had her keep in mind and custody is 50/50. so thats her going out every 2-3 days of the time she has with her daughter. not to mention shes out everynight when she doesnt have her DD. I really hope the judge does the right thing tomorrow. Please pray. and sorry Vent over!Update: Its looking really good for us. we were told today that everything were asking for is extremely reasonable especially seeing as SD starts school in sept. and her BM has lived in 6 houses in the last 19months all in different towns. Hopefully Tuesday everything will be decided on!