if the father of your unborn child was like this what would you do? edit** thank you for the advise.
Let me start out by saying I'm 34 weeks and living on my own, have my own job and support myself.
So this man stalked me before I got pregnant and then we had sex once, I wasn't very willing but I did not report or make the sex a huge deal. Then I find out I'm pregnant and this man wants to be a father but he parties all the time, he sleeps around, he lost three jobs since I've been pregnant because he never even went to work, he hasn't paid for anything during the pregnancy, and he has a past of trying to kill himself.
Would you put his name on the birth certificate and let him be around the child? Would you just leave it alone and stay away from him and let him try to do a paternity test? Or would you leave his name off the birth certiface and then let him see the baby as he pleases and not help pay anything?
The sex was more of him pushing me into having sex with him like we are in a room alone and I was in shock because nothing like that has ever happened to me before. I had a pillow over my head and just played there hoping it would be over with fast. I was pretty much in shock. And I didn't report it because I was scared and didn't realize really how big of a deal it was which is really stupid, I know believe me. I messed up big time but I can't take back what has already happened.
THANK YOU to all you who have helped me! yes the story was a little off even to me... but i got the advise i needed so thank you. i am done duscussing though because i seem to have to repeat my self over and over again. i believe i know what im going to do now.