It pisses me off and I think its gross. He says he has no intention to do anything with the women he just likes it when they message him dirty things. My problem is everytime I find out about one he makes another so I can't check on it...I assume anyway. I'm pretty much done with it. He has a history of cheating, mainly with my friends, but hasn't done anything really wrong since I had our children. I just want to punch him. I'm a good wife and I feel like he don't give a shit. Everyone thinks I'm over reacting but IMO even if its not cheating yet one day words wont be enough.