i enjoy being the side chick. why? because i don't like dealing with the stress of having a boyfriend or putting up with his mess. im fine getting only a couple of hours of his time and staying overnight with him once or twice a month. we keep it simple and keep feelings to a minimum. i care about his wellbeing and he cares about mine. am i stupid for this? smart actually because he does what i want to keep me happy. he knows if i wanted to i could mess up his relationship which isn't very strong right now and hasn't been since i have known him which has been for over a year. call me what you want, bash me if it'll make you feel better i dont reslly care just know im happy and i know how to play my role.