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Fixed Men

Anonymous
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Has any ever dated/married a guy that was fixed before you met them.

How do you handle it knowing that can never share a child together?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:35 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:37 PM

Yes and he was "supposed" to be "fixed" but I ended having a baby, hahahaha

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:38 PM

Well I know mine is for sure, cause they did a sterile test.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes and he was "supposed" to be "fixed" but I ended having a baby, hahahaha


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:38 PM

I have, but he wasn't someone I was planning to share my life with, so whether or not he could have children didn't matter. I'm done having kids, so if I were to date again, whether or not they were fixed would not be an issue.

MrsRinehart2010
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:39 PM

 no but my niece is an she doesnt want kids ever but shes only 19 too lol.

sassysuie
by Gold Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:39 PM

I wish my df were fixed.

haydsmom2007
by Gold Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:40 PM

He isn't fixed but he can't have children. I don't care I already have a kid.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:41 PM

thats the thing. I don't know if i'm done having kids. I mean I love my 2 boys but the daddy wasn't really part of the pregnancy, it would be nice to be pregnant & be able to share it with someone.... but then again I cause see myself be content with him b/c he already has 2 kids of his own.

Quoting Anonymous:

I have, but he wasn't someone I was planning to share my life with, so whether or not he could have children didn't matter. I'm done having kids, so if I were to date again, whether or not they were fixed would not be an issue.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:41 PM

how come.

Quoting haydsmom2007:

He isn't fixed but he can't have children. I don't care I already have a kid.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:42 PM
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lol that will probably change


Quoting MrsRinehart2010:

 no but my niece is an she doesnt want kids ever but shes only 19 too lol.


alexsmomma06
by Platinum Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:42 PM
SO is fixed but we made that decision together.

For me, if something were to happen to SO and I, it would be a blessing knowing the new one was fixed. I don't want multiple fathers for my children or a man who already has kids. But that's just my opinion.
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