Therefore, he does the errands, cleaning, cooking, typical stay-home stuff while I'm at work. I also generally work 60ish hours a week with 1-2 late nights (till 10-11ish) so he gets lots of quality daddy-daughter time. This also means he's the one who should be on top of everything with dd's school...permission forms, homework, etc.
So why the hell am I the one keeping dd up late the night before her assignment is due when dh has had all effing week to work with her?? (She's 4, and her assignment was to write 5 sight words. Had a week to do it). And then...he doesn't even bother to bring it with him so she can turn it in.
Why do I know when all the field trips are before he does? Why does my house smell like a gym?
He swears up and down that he's working soooo hard everyday cleaning up and such, not playing video games or playing on the computer. But how much cleaning is he having to do when he's home alone for 8 hours every damn day?!? The bathroom hasn't been cleaned in over a week, same with vacuuming, he does not dust, and he does dishes and laundry 2-3x a week.
I'm not upset that I'm invested in my kid...I just feel like dh should have me beat considering the time he has available compared to what I've got going on.
SAHMs, please tell me I'm being crazy. That I expect too much of him or something. Cause right now, I just want to punch him in his damn throat.