I am going to make this as simple as possible lol. We have been together 7 years, 1 DS who will be 5 in 4 months. We both want a 2, but he knows I want to be married first. we have been engaged for 4 years. I messed up his first proposal, I knew it was going to happen and joked, thus making him propose early and the original plan not go as planned. Oops. Lol. So he keeps telling me (my mirena is up this month) take it out. He knows what that means. I told him no, I will get another. He wasn't happy, he said no. I told him my point of view, he said he knows but "he has plans" he keeps saying "he has plans" I believe him, but I'm seriously getting tired of hearing it. I don't want to push and mess up his plans a 2 time, but. I am frustrated!!
That might have been a confusing vent, but my point is do you think a man really is upset a proposal didn't go as planned, and he wants to fix it bigger and better than before or is it just his way of "its never going to happen" lol?