dh is cheating on me :(

[Anonymous]

I saw a text from a unknown number on dh phone on new years eve that said i wish you were here. I was racking my brain cause i have seen that number before. This morning i was scrolling threw my texts messasges and saw that same number. It was our former babysitter number. She quit unexpectedly and i didnt know why until now. I called dh and cussed his ass out. He is suppose to be at work from 7nuntil 9pm. Now i dont think so i am shaking so bad

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

He said i was trying to call you but your phone was off. Then she said call me

Quoting twinmommy27:

I think she meant, what did he reply to the text that said "wish you were here".

Quoting Anonymous:

He sayed quiet the whole time

Quoting Anonymous:

I just got a text from a number that is not in my contacts... All it said was "yo, baby." If my DF saw that he'd think I was cheating and I'm definitely not... It could have been she was drunk and texted him on accident? Did he say anything back?

[twinmommy27]

Have you called and talked to the old babysitter?
If you call (if you haven't already), block your number so she won't know it's you till she answers.

Quoting Anonymous:

Not a damn thing. He stayed quiet the whole time

Quoting twinmommy27:

What did he say??

[twinmommy27]

Sorry!!!

Quoting Anonymous:

He said i was trying to call you but your phone was off. Then she said call me

Quoting twinmommy27:

I think she meant, what did he reply to the text that said "wish you were here".

Quoting Anonymous:

He sayed quiet the whole time

Quoting Anonymous:

I just got a text from a number that is not in my contacts... All it said was "yo, baby." If my DF saw that he'd think I was cheating and I'm definitely not... It could have been she was drunk and texted him on accident? Did he say anything back?

[blessed107]

Waiting to exhale! Bernadine, is that you?

Quoting LoveMyLos:

Throw his shit on the front lawn and light 'er up!

[TXCB2004]

ThAts horrible im sorry:(

[twolilgirls712]

Hold your composure, get your self together and take him for everything he has!!! Hugs

[Anonymous]

How old is she/he/ and you?

My dh and I are 32 and I, myself, had fears of finding a babysitter and my dh would have the hots for her...... :/ I have not been down that road yet and hopefully never will.....

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Im 31 sge is 31 and he is 46. She isnt even pretty

Quoting Anonymous:

How old is she/he/ and you?



My dh and I are 32 and I, myself, had fears of finding a babysitter and my dh would have the hots for her...... :/ I have not been down that road yet and hopefully never will.....

[Anonymous]

Oh damn....... Im sorry...... I hope u can leave his ass. Chances are, he has done it before. If she isnt even pretty, then why did he fall into such temptation?? Kwim? I would ask him that too.. and ask him what else does he expect you to think in your position, once he tries to deny it...

I could be all wrong......
This is just my opinion.
((Hugs))

Quoting Anonymous:

Im 31 sge is 31 and he is 46. She isnt even pretty

Quoting Anonymous:

How old is she/he/ and you?





My dh and I are 32 and I, myself, had fears of finding a babysitter and my dh would have the hots for her...... :/ I have not been down that road yet and hopefully never will.....

[shygurl3166]

Don't fight for him, don't call her. Let him go. Why fight for a man who you will never trust again?