sahm, do you think?

[Anonymous]

Do you think dh should help out with the kids or the house work on his daysoff?

[CreziaMommyTo2]

he shouldnt do anything he doesnt want to do.. he does it because he WANTS to.

[audreesmama]

It depends on the dynamic. If he wants to help, cool. If not, who cares? I cook, and he entertains kids and dogs. Regardless we all clean for 15 minutes every night ( he usually takes out trash or just helps dd pick up her toys) because I don't want my kids to grow up thinking only women clean.

[Anonymous]

Ffs

[KeimUNCmomof3]

Yes and my husband does. He will even help on his work days, when he gets home at night.

[anotherhalf]

Depends on what works for the family. I do all the housework during the week so the weekend is free for fun for all of us, not work.

[Anonymous]

he helps everyday, not only on his days off.

[SLGross215]

 I don't care if he doesn't help with housework, I'd just do it over anyway...lol But he better help with his son, he isn't just my child.

ETA ~ I expect him to spend time with his son everyday, not just his days off. I never have to say "hey go spend time with your son". He just does it & sometimes he tries to be helpful with house stuff.

[Anonymous]

Of course. They're his kids too. Working doesn't mean that you get to not be a parent.

[Alejandra10]

I dont mind if he helps good if he dont i stillbdo it but most of the time he helps out in some way either keeps the kids intertain or helps me out when i need to be withbthe kids

[Kitschy]

He does.