This thing has blown up! I didn't really expect that, although I guess I should have considering the content. I do not think my niece is a monster, my mommy instict wants to protect her and take her away from anything that could hurt her. She is my beautiful bright sweety pie! Since last night I have spoken to my son about that not being okay, if anything like that ever happens again he needs to tell me or another adult right away. My sister and I had a little bit of a conversation last night, it didn't go very far and ended with her crying uncontrolably.. I will talk with her again after I have gained enough knowledge and and resources to actually do some good. There are other more minor things with my niece that point to her being abused at some point.
Thank you to everyone that is offering me advice on what to do from here. As a side note I have been my usual loving self with both of the kids. My post was partly an outlet for the fursteration that I believe would be more harmful than anything to my niece, my son and my sister.
I am at a loss as to how this could even happen. My ds is also 4. My sister moved in with us recently, she had problems where she was living before. I'm not completely aware of what happened because she just didn't want to talk about it. I plan on having a conversation about that later when I calm down a bit.
What happened. Well, my 4 year old niece was playing fort with my son (blankets set up between two chairs) and my older daughter decided mess with them and ripped thhe blankets off the chairs. My niece was sitting on my sons face with no pants on!! I got home from work shortly after this to find both kids being questioned about what happened. My son said that she was telling him to put his tounge in her and that he was stuck and couldn't talk. I am horrified, I want to throw them out on the street, I want to hurt the little girl! More than that though, I want to find out what happened to her and hold her close and never let the world hurt her again.
This happened last night. I hhave kept my son right by my side since then and plan to take him somewhere after breakfast so we can address this. I don't know where to go or what to do about this though. I am trying so hard not to look at my niece like she's a monster, anybody else do this to my child and I would have caused them some serious pain by now! Oh dear god.. What do I do?!