i lied, im scared

[Kimbyann]

DS usually sleeps with me and my dh works night shift. DH told me he would like CJ to sleep in his crib now so I tried to let him sleep there but was nervous. I lied and said CJ slept in his crib twice this week. DH went out tonight but will be home soon and will expect CJ in his own room.
So this is really the first night he has spent away from me. I'm so paranoid about what might happen that I haven't been able to go to sleep. I wanna make sure I wake up to a live baby tomorrow. So I took off the bumper pads and took away the comforter in the crib. I just checked on him and he's rolled to the side. I moved him but he keeps going right back.

I'm so so so scared/nervous.

[Anonymous]

Its bothering him hes there....hes the daddy.

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

Yeah but she is the mama and it's bothering her !

Quoting Anonymous:

This is suck a crock of shit....hes the dad he gets a say and opinion on how his son is raised. Op grow up stop lieing if you have a concern about how your husband thinks should raise the child sit and talk about it and find a compromise.

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

If it's bothering you this much then go get him , YOU ARE THE MAMA !! what you say goes :)

[FL2AK]

Does your husband beat you? Seems like such a weird thing to lie and be scared about.

[AA2.0]

And he is the father and clearly co-sleeping is bothering him. Do his needs not matter at all?

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

Yeah but she is the mama and it's bothering her !

Quoting Anonymous:

This is suck a crock of shit....hes the dad he gets a say and opinion on how his son is raised. Op grow up stop lieing if you have a concern about how your husband thinks should raise the child sit and talk about it and find a compromise.

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

If it's bothering you this much then go get him , YOU ARE THE MAMA !! what you say goes :)

[TDausman]

Could you put his crib in your bedroom? Then he is close and you can put him in there when DH is home and in bed with you when he's gone.

Quoting Kimbyann:

He is 3 and a half months.

Quoting peanutsmommy1:

How old?


Good job getting rid of the bumper and comforter if he is a baby, they are suffocation hazzards


As for him being on his side, if he can roll over let him sleep however he is comfortable

[2ltlmonkeyz]

IMO the mama makes the final decision about their babies , may be right , may be wrong but it's my opinion. It's called a mother's intuition not father's intuition. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Its bothering him hes there....hes the daddy.

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

Yeah but she is the mama and it's bothering her !

Quoting Anonymous:

This is suck a crock of shit....hes the dad he gets a say and opinion on how his son is raised. Op grow up stop lieing if you have a concern about how your husband thinks should raise the child sit and talk about it and find a compromise.

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

If it's bothering you this much then go get him , YOU ARE THE MAMA !! what you say goes :)

[2ltlmonkeyz]

I was just telling someone else imo the mama has final say when it come to the babies !

Quoting AA2.0:

And he is the father and clearly co-sleeping is bothering him. Do his needs not matter at all?

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

Yeah but she is the mama and it's bothering her !

Quoting Anonymous:

This is suck a crock of shit....hes the dad he gets a say and opinion on how his son is raised. Op grow up stop lieing if you have a concern about how your husband thinks should raise the child sit and talk about it and find a compromise.

Quoting 2ltlmonkeyz:

If it's bothering you this much then go get him , YOU ARE THE MAMA !! what you say goes :)

[lovelove211]

How old is your baby?

[Gwynyth]

As soon as he wakes up, bring him into your bed. Tell DH that you were tired and it was just easier!

[lovelove211]

How old is your baby?

[Kimbyann]

No. He doesn't beat me. I lied because I wanted him to be happy and am scared because baby is alone.

Quoting FL2AK:

Does your husband beat you? Seems like such a weird thing to lie and be scared about.