Pros and cons or having a baby, abortion, and adoption
What are some pros and cons of having a baby?
What are some pros and cons of having an abortion?
What are some pros and cons of adoption?
My cousin just found out that she is about 5-6 weeks pregnant. It is unplanned and she found out when she went to get her monthly depo shot. Well she is freaked out and trying to decide what is best for her. She is trying to come up with a pros/cons list for all the options to help her think the decision through. She will not see this post because I know there will be bashing. She is 20 years old and has an almost ear old already. She is a full time college student with no job living off student loans. She is married but her DH is out of work so he has been staying home with their child. They already are struggling finacially with one kid. She already has a good list but I think pros/cons from others might really help her.
She is not trying to get persuaded one way or another and just wants a list so that she can think it through for herself.
I know for many people there is no need for a "pros/cons" list but when it comes to an unwanted pregnancy it isnt an easy answer.
Thanks in advance