I love DH.......BUT I would NEVER get involved with a man that has underage kids and an ex that is in the picture.
I don't know what it is like to not have to deal with all the BS that goes along with it. It is all I have ever known. For those that are going to bash me, don't, I love the kids. I would have no problem dating someone with kids if BM was COMPLETELY out of the picture.
My husband's ex actually likes me but has treated DH like absolute shit. I am glad that the kids are all grown and I don't have to have much to do with her any more.
I often wonder what it would have been like to be the first and only. I chose him though and accepted all that came with the relationship. I plan on being with him forever but if I wasn't, I would never do it again.