Kinda long. So dh and I met when I was 16 I had a DD from a different Guy. He accepted her and we got married 3 years later. Everything was perfect in 2007 same year we got married we had a DD. I then became a sahm with a in home business. He then started to become a ass hole. Everything had to be his way. Fast forward to recently we had a DS 2 years ago marriage was almost over beacause I can not handle him. He is controlling. Everything has to be his way. Everything is my fault. He does not help me with our kids. His money is his money. He will spend it on what he wants never what the kids want. He is not happy. Either am I. Yes I bitch a lot woundnt you with a husband like this. I really want to leave him but then I can't because my kids. I don't have proof that he has cheated but I know he has talked to other girls. Well 2013 is suppose to be a new start for us. If I find that he has talked to one girl then the kids and I are out the door. All I think is the grass is not always greener on the other side.