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Really.. You think you are entitled???

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I love how ex wives think they can come and go as they please. Ok not all, but obviously a lot. Do people not know boundaries anymore??? It's crazy how many here think its ok to go to ex husbands house and not care if the s/o approves or not. What is wrong with women??
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by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 2:39 PM
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Cochise
by Dawn on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:06 PM
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I don't know whats wrong with them...   too many people think they can do whatever they wish with no reguard to others feelings.   

mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:06 PM

 lol like this wasnt coming after that post

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:06 PM
You do realize police stations do charge if welfare checks are excessive right? You'd be willing to pay for that? Also welfare checks do not give an officer the right to enter the home either.



Quoting TheQueenOfChaos:

And they wont have a choice for weekly welfare checks either.

But the plus side is, my CO says I have full say over my DDs visitation. She only goes when and where I say she can.



Quoting Anonymous:

With visitation court orders and custody orders you wont have a choice.






Quoting TheQueenOfChaos:

Well when my children are involved either I'm allowed to see where they are, or you won't be seeing them. I can easily walk into any police station and demand weekly welfare checks be done if that's what the S/O wants. I have no problem with that either.


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momsince04
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:07 PM
So her not feeling any threat nor reason to be concerned means she's not involved. By far one of the dumbest comments so far.


Quoting Anonymous:

Why, because shes not involved with her kids enough to go to their other house?



Quoting momsince04:

Thank you!!!!!






Quoting Anonymous:

I've never seen inside my exes house. He is good with the kids and cares for them well. He has never been in mine either. I do not feel either of us has the right to go into each others homes because we feel we have the right. We don't. We lost that right when we split. What's his is his, what's mine is mine. If I felt he ha unsuitable housing ir treated the kids bad I would call the police and go through the courts... Not invade his space.







I realize that's not how most feel.


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Cochise
by Dawn on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:07 PM
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There is a thing called respect and privacy ... I agree with you ...  and if a child needs to be checked up on in their home.. there is a thing called... phones and cell phones.

Quoting momsince04:

No I have to disagree. Especially if the ex has someone new. If you know your child is being taken care of, you should have no reason to go to the ex's house. And if you have doubts, then talk to the ex and settle it. I've been inside my ex's house. I've gone and waited outside. If something is wrong my kids will tell me


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:08 PM
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the ex would not be butting in unannouned

Quoting momsince04:

Hell no what??


Quoting Anonymous:

hell no! 



TheQueenOfChaos
by Gold Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:08 PM

If you knew the story you would know the reason.

Let me make it short

  • Second degree burns
  • Pneumonia
  • Dirty Home
  • Drinking Parties
  • Needles lying around
  • Naked texts of my DDs body


And that's just a small part of it. Hence the reason why my CO is the way it is. Not a control freak, someone who has seen her baby hurt way too much for a 3 year old. None of this (except the pneumonia) was done by him directly, that's the only reason he still gets visits, but it's been done by his family while he was staying with them with her. He's shown the court that he can't make good decisions on her behalf, so he loses the right to make said decisions.

Quoting Anonymous:

Control freak! If there is no reason for weekly welfare checks, it makes you look psycho. That will help them in court if they ever want custody.
You are allowed to see where they are, but not on your terms. You can see where they are from the door. If you act like a civil person, perhaps you will be invited in.

Quoting TheQueenOfChaos:

Well when my children are involved either I'm allowed to see where they are, or you won't be seeing them. I can easily walk into any police station and demand weekly welfare checks be done if that's what the S/O wants. I have no problem with that either.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:08 PM
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This. I am entitled to know where my kids are/ and what they are doing.. and to know what kind of environment they are in. Period.

That simple, stop being jealous of the ex is my advice because it won't end well for you. So get over it.


Quoting luckysevenwow:

I'll go to anyones house where my children might be. so if it's feeling entitled to check out where my kids are spending time then I guess I would be entitled.


LyTe684
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:08 PM
This.

Quoting AlekD:

Do you think that perhaps your experience with one ex wife is coloring your perception of ex wives in general?

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momsince04
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:08 PM
Lol, I just had too... I thought the other stuff was so crazy. I had to get my own 2€ on it


Quoting mommy_me:

 lol like this wasnt coming after that post


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