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IS IT OKAY TO HIDE MONEY FROM YOUR SPOUSE

Posted by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:57 PM
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Some couple argue over money and I was told once you get married you fight about money. Some believe its okay to have money hidden from a spouse while others say its wrong bc If your married money is to be shared. WHATS YOUR OPINION ON THIS MATTER?

by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:57 PM
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KairisMama
by Emerald Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 3:59 PM
Id have no reason to hide money.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:00 PM
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Hell yeah its ok. DH encourages it!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:00 PM

I have no reason to hide money from my dh, we share our money

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:00 PM
Yes hide it or you will be left with nothing
twinmommy27
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:01 PM
If I felt the need to hide money, I'd do it.
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AlwaysKISA
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:01 PM
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I have $5000 in a savings account that SO doesn't know about.....
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livelaughlov26
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:01 PM
If its your money then yes as long as you aren't struggling.
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svolkov
by Emerald Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:01 PM

only if you are saving to  get away from an abusive spouse

Josie_P
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:02 PM

eh, I have money stashed away that my dh doesn't know about. It's really for emergencies and I don't touch it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 13, 2013 at 4:02 PM
And that's why DF and I each have our own accts and a joint. We transfer money as needed.
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